unpopular opinion…?

ok am i the only one who is like so annoyed with tops being a little too chill about being in an asshole? why arent they getting off like crazy like the bottom is? its so unrealistic and also a huge eye roll whenever a top is always like “i havent even cum yet.” does the ass even feel good? i wish BL showed more tops thatre just as a mess as the bottoms (just sayin as someone with seggs experience).