idk the rules about bdsm/ sub/dom relationships, but I feel like the uke complains to much...

happyggm May 14, 2024 8:46 am

idk the rules about bdsm/ sub/dom relationships, but I feel like the uke complains to much for being a sub. like the seme said he didn't make him do anything cuz he has the last word, uke is the one in control. but uke is new to this & wants things his way. idk he complains to much for my preference. & don't get me confused, he should voice his concerns & what not, but even when he's been obedient he still complained a lot. like previously when they were texting & seme was like i'm busy reply fast, but what does uke do ignore that & calls him? like did you not just read that he was busy, what if he's at work or something & you calling him. he complained about his previous partner being to attached/needy but i feel like he doing that to a certain extent already.

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    ☽ ࡞⋆Nuzzles⋆࡞ ☾ May 15, 2024 1:58 am

    Idk if u read it correctly but the reason why wookyung called him was because he didn’t want to talk to the guy seungmin (his previous fuck buddy) who was approaching him, so he thought if he was on the phone he wouldn’t have to talk to him.

    happyggm May 15, 2024 2:09 am
    Idk if u read it correctly but the reason why wookyung called him was because he didn’t want to talk to the guy seungmin (his previous fuck buddy) who was approaching him, so he thought if he was on the phone... ☽ ࡞⋆Nuzzles⋆࡞ ☾

    I know why he did it but he still ignored that his “master” told him he was busy. If I’m texting someone I’m busy & to hurry up & reply and they call me, imma just be like did you not see that I said I was busy. The seme obviously didn’t care but it’s just another example of him not listening. Idk if they gonna do the sub/dom relationship they should do it right. I know he’s knew to this so obviously it’s gonna take him a bit to get used to it, but he just complains to much for a submissive. I guess this gonna go the relationship route that’s why they aren’t strict with those dynamics

    kickassfu May 15, 2024 9:26 pm

    there are plenty of subs who are mouthy and fight back a bit and that's the kind of dinamic they have, in the end they still want to follow what their master says. but they get off on fighting back a bit and there are doms who enjoy that too, including this one. it's not like all subs and all doms are exactly the same and every relationship is the same.

    but forgetting about all of that he is also still new to the scene, and the dom isn't doing the best job of teaching and explaining. or even fostering trust between the two. idk why he's upset the sub doesn't trust him when he hasn't even told him his name yet, nor did he explain the play beforehand so the sub would be prepared. again he's new to all of this.

    i find more fault with the dom than with the sub here tbh.

    Galaxy May 15, 2024 10:31 pm
    I know why he did it but he still ignored that his “master” told him he was busy. If I’m texting someone I’m busy & to hurry up & reply and they call me, imma just be like did you not see that I... happyggm

    They were not in play at that moment. He doesn't have to follow his rules outside the play

    jo ^^ May 16, 2024 1:22 am
    I know why he did it but he still ignored that his “master” told him he was busy. If I’m texting someone I’m busy & to hurry up & reply and they call me, imma just be like did you not see that I... happyggm

    they were not in play...? please do your research before spouting shit like this oml