
fr to me it's how he never tries to explain himself out loud, he has a lot of internal dialogue where he goes through his thought process, but then when it comes to actually conveying what he's thinking to other people, the MC just says the bare minimum, which creates so many misunderstandings.... it's kinda frustrating ;;

It's not necessarily that his actions are LIKE a stalker, more that they come across that way to the other characters because he never explains himself properly out loud. Like we see the MC have these long explanations in his internal dialogue for why he keeps approaching Jigu even though he knows the guy is clearly socially uncomfortable around him, but out loud, he only says things like "well the coffee here is delicious" when in truth, he's checking up on Jigu, or "I just had some spare candy" when he invades Jigu's personal space to put something in his pocket.
As the readers, we can understand the MC because we get to see his internal dialogue, but it's easy to understand why someone like Jigu, who has been stalked before, would be completely freaked out by his lack of proper communication
Ngl he kinda does seem like a stalker. He doesn’t mean to obviously but like the way he’s always in the black haired guys business and is at everywhere he’s at and always tries to talk to him is odd to me. Like he means well but maybe leave him alone yk what I mean guys