that's even worse??? like if you know someone wouldn't want to do something you DON'T find a way to make them do it...
Ik he has the best intentions but manipulating someone into doing something you know they're not comfortable with is NOT the way
(I don't think this is the case tho, he's too precious to be this sly)
you should read this bro https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/16105486/
read it and yeah ofc he only means well, I think so too, but still forcing someone like that is wrong. let's not forget that nope, the ends do not justify the means: at the end of the day you still forced someone to do something they weren't ready for.
obviously some people might never feel ready enough, but doing something like that means risking to make things worse or even awaken more trauma for the person you're trying to help. Idk I find it a little insensitive and "arrogant" to assume that the person that wants to avoid a certain thing doesn't actually know what's good for them, thought that leads to you intervening and forcing it to happen.
I still think jiho is a cinnamon roll and I love him!!
I also don't think this is the case for them, I was talking in general, imo Inwoo probably really wants to see his mother again and get an explanation but a heads up never hurts!
I agree with you. Jiho only has an effort to reunite Inwoo with his mother, even with a little coercion. Because without some push, people will never make progress and will never heal. But I'm not sure if Inwoo really wanted to see his mother again, based on his background as a successful, famous, and wealthy writer. Why didn't he try to find his mother, meet her, and clear up the misunderstanding? Okay, maybe it's not that easy, I think the Author wants to give a little sophisticated approach on how someone who seems perfect like Inwoo dealing with his trauma. This becomes one of the hardest things when someone mentally ill tries to heal by facing what makes them sick. So, let's ride out this process and see them heal <3
But imo, everyone has a different approach. Maybe Jiho did it that way because he knew Inwoo wouldn't agree. That's why Jiho made the decision on his own like that. So we can't judge just based on a spoiler like that. It's not even complete yet, but people are already jumping to conclusions ."