he's so submissive it irks me 😔

but he isn’t

I'd insist he is, merely because of my dissatisfaction so it's really subjective. two things can exist at once and our contradicting opinion doesn't cancel out one another. we should have enough space for diversity

mm i think im just thinking of other bls where authors make their characters excessively submissive and in comparison here its not as noticeable? but ofc we each have our own opinions!