fast forward to today, my aunt had the audacity to ask me how I was doing—months have already passed after that incident and I still could bring myself to forget. I waited until night time to respond to them and I always go hang out with my friends that helped me so that when they visit my apartment, I'm always not there. I will no distance myself from her, I still appreciate the help I received when she was still willing but I don't think I could still be as close to her like I used to back then. Idc if I'm the A**hole but I believe that my feelings are valid.
was gonna write "no longer associate with her" but forgot to erase the "no"
i think you did good. Cut her off and don't think about her anymore.
I just wanna vent cuz I don't have ppl to talk to that yould actually listen.
I have an aunt that I lowkey cutted off because I realized she was only good to me and helped because she was expecting in return from my mother. And when she and my mother grew distant because she would always gossip ny mother's life to other ppl (they didn't exactly fight but my mother never trusted her again and didn't bother to reply to her messages for months) she also stopped helping me and left me to tend for myself.
An example to this is when I was so sick and couldn't get off bed and I asked her for help, she responded by saying I should go to a nearby pharmacy and buy medicine—and as I said I couldn't even get up. I haven't eaten anything at all, all day because I live alone. I had no choice but to ask help from my friends who I met just 8 months ago. And guess what they were the only ppl who actually extended their arm. I was finally able to eat and it was already night time when I called cuz I was too sick to even lift my phone after asking my aunt for help.
After delivery food and medicine which they didn't even take any money from me to pay, they actually offered to take care of me. I declined cuz ut was getting too late at night and I don't want them to be in danger when coming home. I was also feeling a bit better after hrs and hrs of sleep. After convincing them to go home I got emotional and criend because that was the first time someone ever do that for me.