I get it but mc was being dumb and I don’t feel bad for him here tbh

he gets all types of warning and help offer so yeah no surprise for me obvious outcome

Calling him dumb is crazy. There's an underlying reason but calling him dumb just completely discredits that. Did you even understand what you read?

Yeah i can’t have an opinion? I have a parent who was an abusive alcoholic and I kept giving them chances and even though they seem to be better now I don’t talk to them and I feel like I was being dumb at that time!