Nah he was evil
Rather than evil,he was an arrogant a-hole who never believed Sejin and even raped him…..lets just call him evil.
Not that he never believed him but Sejin NEVER SAID ANYTHING in the first time line. All that mess happened because Sejin kept his mouth shut. He didn’t trust Ido’s love enough to tell him the truth even after Ido almost basically begged him to give him any excuses even if it’s a lie he would have believed Sejin back then. But Sejin kept his mouth shut. Even after Ido’s brother r@ped him instead of telling Ido he basically added more fuel to the fire by provoking him.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not blaming Sejin for what happened in the first time line but it is so unfair to pin it all to Ido. Ido has his fair share to what happened but so as Sejin. Both were in the wrong in the past.
Even if mc is really cheating on ido, that doesn't justify raping him and locking him up,also it's not like it's that easy to tell someone you got raped. Both is wrong in the past life but most of the blame goes to the brother and ido
Ok, we are there that it is not easy to tell about the SA but provoking him? Sejin did provoke Ido, it wasn’t good enough that he didn’t tell the truth but he provoked Ido and told him lie. Who wouldn’t see red in that situation? Also about the r@ped of Sejin’s husband. If I remember correctly it is true Ido did Sejin roughly as punishment for his betrayal but Sejin told Ido he will do everything for him that’s why even if Ido was rough to him he endured. He wanted them to be ok again. The only time it was not consensual was at the hotel after Sejin provoked him. Sejin provoked him because he wanted Ido to agree with the divorce but Ido doesn’t want to divorce him. The only reason why Sejin wanted divorce is because he thought Ido gifted him to his brother.
Both were in the wrong, it just irks me how can someone spoil something so incomplete and make the other character paint as someone who is irredeemable.
Oh my gosh I haven't read the novel and didn't know all of this, I am surprised and lowkey scared for whats to come!!!
Can you actually blame him though? It's a normal thing to experience as a victim, I mean in this life mc hasn't been raped yet but still is suspicious of ml love because he never actually experienced it, now imagine him getting raped on top of that, blaming mc kinda just feels like victim blamy to me and talking about other positive traits of ml when he abused him just seem icky since the fact that he abused him ruins everything and Is a bummer, you know why I blur those parts? Because talking about anything positive about him when he already did a horrible thing makes me severely uncomfortable and no I am not saying he's irredeemable I've forgiven characters that done worse things than him, it's just you can't ignore the fact that no matter how much he actually care for him, he still abused him
So are you just going to turn a blind eye on what Sejin did to Ido then? I’m not victim blaming. All I’m saying is that if you are going to spoil then the least you can do is spill the whole context and not blur some details. Let the reader of your spoiler decide for themselves if Ido truly was a trash because in my opinion all those sh*t started with Sejin. If only he trusted Ido a little bit in the last lifetime then none of that would’ve had happened. He has been good to Sejin even before Sejin betrayed him. Don’t also forget the real reason why he locked Sejin up! Even though Sejin betrayed him and he’s mad about him, Ido played the bad guy by locking him up because his family already abandoned him and with all the paparazzi sworming around hot for the news of his embezzlement and tax evasion. My gosh, you even admit that your spoiler is so one sided!
there is no way ido was evil in their past lives, it has to be his brother