Exactly! Losing a lover is not the same as breaking up with someone. You don't lose your love for them, and you feel like they were stolen from you. It's not easy to get over your heartbreak. Some people never love someone back again.
people saying he should just move on already or was annoying for feeling like that... truly wish they dont ever experience the same thing but their ignorance is astounding
I have heard that people who grieve and don't want to date have this exact problem: those around them want them to "move on" and "get someone new". There's pressure from family and friends to start dating back.
The opposite is also true, that they are not allowed to date, which is equally as bad, but seems more rare. Still, why can't people let others just go on their own pace for stuff that is important to their lives?
people saying its boring or unrealistic are clearly not mature enough to understand this story. it was actually a wonderful read about healing process. they may have started dating when they were young but they were in their mid 20s when yuuma passed away, meaning they were together for almost 10 years. losing a loved one after such a long time together is heartbreaking, especially if you are very young. not being able to move on or wanting to start another relationship for 3 years isnt such a strange thing at all. the male lead was very mature about it as well, in saying that he didnt want the mc to forget yuuma and when he said he understood the love mc still felt for yuuma. going to his grave and showing respect, ensuring yuuma that mc would no longer be alone was a very beautiful ending in my eyes since that's what yuuma had wished for mc the most.