Psychologically Haesol is really interesting. Because of the trauma she had with her family as a child her emotional development got stucked in an early stage and that’s why her emotions are so basic and primitive (as in a small child) and that’s why they’ve all this problems bc she can’t recognize her feelings properly. (And he is more emotional and had a proper emotional development so a partner like that should help her to grow and heal). What I like the most is that the author decided to show people like that, that have traumas and feel more like real people and also it helps to understand that even when they both had traumas there’s really a huge difference in when something happened. A traumatic experience like bulling as an adolescent can hurt you, change you and afect you a person (and a lot more) but childhood trauma change the way you are your hole life, it changes you as a person, and gives you a way of feeling, behaving and seeing life that structures your existence. And that’s why Hasol and Yeowoo are so different. That’s my ted talk
Psychologically Haesol is really interesting. Because of the trauma she had with her family as a child her emotional development got stucked in an early stage and that’s why her emotions are so basic and primitive (as in a small child) and that’s why they’ve all this problems bc she can’t recognize her feelings properly. (And he is more emotional and had a proper emotional development so a partner like that should help her to grow and heal).
What I like the most is that the author decided to show people like that, that have traumas and feel more like real people and also it helps to understand that even when they both had traumas there’s really a huge difference in when something happened. A traumatic experience like bulling as an adolescent can hurt you, change you and afect you a person (and a lot more) but childhood trauma change the way you are your hole life, it changes you as a person, and gives you a way of feeling, behaving and seeing life that structures your existence.
And that’s why Hasol and Yeowoo are so different.
That’s my ted talk