
I would agree but Jo is the one who's the falling in love, he's the one who keeps wanting to be with Ian, Ian doesn't push him away BECAUSE he likes Jo, not the way Jo likes him though, and Ian doesn't even know what he wants because of years he repressed himself and only knows one familiarity (tj).
Also because I believe Ian deserves better than tj so I atleast want Jo help Ian find new comfort, whether it's Jo or not. I want Ian away from the one that has held him back for YEARS

I think my problem with this is that Ian knows he doesn't feel the same way Jo does. I feel like if he was a decent person, he would let Jo go if he is this confused on who he wants to be with. If he just tells Jo the truth about his feelings, at least Jo can move on instead of being dragged around by him. Of course he's falling in love because Ian is screwing him and spending time with him while still thinking about TJ.
Jesus I just want Jo to drop Ian so bad. If he wants to be with TJ so bad THEN FREE MY MAN JO, RIP OFF THE BANDAID AND TELL THAT POOR, KIND SOUL THAT YOU DON'T LIKE HIM SO HE CAN FIND SOMEONE NICE TO GIVE HIS LOVE TO. SOMEONE WHO WILL ACTUALLY ACCEPT IT.