I really don't understand the comments, they started dating not too long ago and have neve...

Lola August 1, 2024 8:34 pm

I really don't understand the comments, they started dating not too long ago and have never had any arguments and for both of them this is their very first dating experience. They need time to adapt, to understand each other and to learn to express themselves (+ they were both pathetical liars at the beginning). It may take time and that's okay, that's how human relationships work in general.

Do they need to break up at the very first argument because they still don't know how to communicate? Because that's how you'all sound.

Ml was accused of not being serious about the MC at first, and now that it's clear he's the one way more into the relationship, people are still criticizing him, man can't catch a break lmao. I guess it's because people have decided it's a bad/red flag seme when he's not.

They are both immature and far from perfect, but again that's normal, when they are 95% honest with each other there will be no more walls between them (well just the ml is the obsessive and anxious type, so it's going to be hard for him to always be at peace of mind, mc will have to accommodate with it lol).

Responses
    caropearo61 August 1, 2024 9:52 pm

    I completely agree! I’m so glad someone said this. I wudnt even say that their communications isnt as much the problem as I would say their lacking in understanding.

    MC gets overwhelmed by MLs need for physical touch. Now after this most recent episode, I would say that the ML sees that but doesn’t understand why and how to go about it. The ML just doesn’t understand why these physicalities make him so uncomfortable.

    PLUS+! It is not unusual in a relationship to not like PDA. AND! It’s not uncommon for people to need physical touch and not be bothered by PDA.
    For those who are gay and/or in the closet it’s not crazy to see that. Personally, I am someone that can’t do PDA at all.

    I don’t think that they should break up either. At least not yet, not with what we’ve read so far! Like you said this is their first relationship! It’s going to be awkward and messy.

    They are both trying to compromise and be understanding. They just don’t realize how what they’re doing makes the other feel and why.

    While I say all this, I don’t like the ML almost at all. But I can’t put my finger on y? But I still can see this.

    caropearo61 August 1, 2024 9:54 pm
    I completely agree! I’m so glad someone said this. I wudnt even say that their communications isnt as much the problem as I would say their lacking in understanding. MC gets overwhelmed by MLs need for physic... caropearo61

    Sorry for the novel

    Dayu August 7, 2024 4:25 pm

    Is the seme a playboy? A comments says that he is. I haven't read this so I'm just curious

    caropearo61 August 8, 2024 2:50 am
    Is the seme a playboy? A comments says that he is. I haven't read this so I'm just curious Dayu

    Yes and no. We see that he was before their relationship but he’s pretty all in with the MC while they’re dating. He just has a very high sex drive that it seems the MC can’t keep up with so far