
Calling someone’s trauma a tantrum and insecurities is really…icky. And no a rational choice isn’t beating your partner up when you know they have trauma relating to physical abuse. That’s fucked up.
I promise you not everyone blames Skylar. If anything, I’ve seen a lot blame them equally. Nobody is hailing Cirrus like a saint, we know he has problems. All I care is that he apologized and Skylar accepted that (for his past faults), but I also accept that Skylar will doubt him at times (even though he did believe in him instead of fatty in raws).
I’ve not once invalidated Skylar’s mental health, so I don’t get why so many invalidate Cirrus’s mental health. I think this is the difference between biased people vs people who actually care for both of them.

Yeah, you pretend to be neutral but you're that typical cirrus fanatic fans who always use trauma whenever people tried calling him out of his TANTRUM
That's what i dont like from Cirrus fans saying "blame them equally" when Skylar doesn't deserve to be blamed in the same level as cirrus in their relationship.
The funny thing is my favorite character is cirrus lmao, as i always love problematic/red flag gong from bl, yet i see his shitty behavior and find it weird that people wanting to put Skylar in the same problematic way as cirrus

You putting traumas down to tantrums is vague and invalidating. You need to stop with the whole Cirrus fans vs Skylar fans. The only unbiased ones are Skyrus fans.
Of course your favorite is Cirrus yet you constantly put him down, ask for Sky to get a break but not Cirrus with all the things happening right now? This is why I find it biased.
Even if I were only a Cirrus bias, which is impossible, I wouldn’t be putting another down and leveling it down to tantrum.
And you saying it’s rational to beat someone m, your partner, is just promoting physical violence. I am not even justifying Cirrus throwing the juice box at Sky.
Skylar isn’t innocent. Nor is anyone claiming Cirrus to be. They’re both mentally ill and did wrong stuff. Cirrus had manipulated but he’s stopped and prior he apologized for hurting Sky, and they talked and hugged it out, etc Sa. but since people love to bring up the past and act as if it’s still the same person, what about Skylar’s SA towards his ex friend, the borderline following and taking pics of Chan, beating someone till they bleed.
Here I am bringing that up to show you he has done problematic things as Cirrus has done. But that was in the past, clearly both knew they were wrong and they’re in the present now. I don’t get why you feel the need to disregard Cirrus’s mental health, and the way you phrase things makes me believe you’re a very biased person.

And what do you mean always use trauma? Trauma plays a big role in this story. I’m sorry you can’t comprehend the story and didn’t see how Cirrus’s trauma was triggered during the hallway incident! And I, unlike you, would never invalidate another character’s trauma. I also mentioned Sky’s trauma being triggered, he was hurt and so was the other. They are teens, nobody is evil here.
Skylar deserves some blame, he is not innocent as I’ve already said. He is not free from guilt, and this is also why it shows through his expressions if you had read.
I want Hanneul to put a temporary break between their relationship until graduation. I'm getting worried of his declining grades bc of his problem with Hyunwoon. But I know Hanneul is always been kind, he probably cant ignore hyunwoon crying ass if he said that. Not to mention readers always blame hanneul for every single rational thing he does just bc Hyunwoon having a tantrum or something