it's easier said than done tbh especially if you've been with that person for years. You would doubt yourself first, if it's your fault. You would even think it's your fault because you think you're not enough. You would try to fix things or even change yourself. It takes a lot of self realization and reflection to realize that it's not your fault that it's your partner. People have different ways to process trauma like this. I even know someone who hasn't dated anyone since their ex cheated on them. I got cheated on as well, though, I berated the fuck out of him and exposed him to his family because I know he was an ugly piece of shit and he's lucky I gave him my time of day but not everyone is like you and me.
Accidentally downvoted but yea this y I need a glock on me at all times. The moment I see that mf face in another girl pussy that shit gonna turn into the red sea
no offense to female lead but if I EVER WAS IN A SIMILAR SITUATION (which would literally be impossible cus I wouldn’t do all this for man) and he cheated on me…. IM KILLING HIM ASAP, I wouldn’t even hide the body, I would proudly plead guilty because how the hell am I gonna spend my entire life slaving for u and u turn ur back and do this to MEEE???