I want the "He is injured, seme is worried, but uke doesn't want to see him." trope. So they don't see each other for a while. JJ leaves. Uke goes through rehab (if needed) and maybe takes some time off to gather himself. Maybe finds a friend who helps him understand himself or he finds himself or something. And JJ while gone, maybe he focuses on work and either through actually having a relationship with someone that is as he wanted Leo to be like, he realises his mistakes. They both need to mature and see themselves properly and become self-aware to take responsibility for the part they played in it all. It is never just one persons fault why a relationship deteriorated. It is always both sides. The distribution of responsibility in the deterioration of specific aspects of the relationship may be unevenly divided between both. But it is always the responsibility of both. I dislike how everyone just focuses and blames Leo and nobody helps this guy to understand why. Leo never acts like he is perfect. He actually is very right in being angry and going through some denial(relatable thing to do), when his first boyfriend ever of years who meant the world to him just dumps him and never tells him anything. Then just flat out ignores him and then lets Leo find out through others that he is leaving for real. We don't know fully the wrongs of Leo (all of them), just a few of them, but I already know I would explode in someone like JJ's face long ago. Speak ffs. I cannot read minds!
I want the "He is injured, seme is worried, but uke doesn't want to see him." trope. So they don't see each other for a while. JJ leaves. Uke goes through rehab (if needed) and maybe takes some time off to gather himself. Maybe finds a friend who helps him understand himself or he finds himself or something. And JJ while gone, maybe he focuses on work and either through actually having a relationship with someone that is as he wanted Leo to be like, he realises his mistakes. They both need to mature and see themselves properly and become self-aware to take responsibility for the part they played in it all. It is never just one persons fault why a relationship deteriorated. It is always both sides. The distribution of responsibility in the deterioration of specific aspects of the relationship may be unevenly divided between both. But it is always the responsibility of both. I dislike how everyone just focuses and blames Leo and nobody helps this guy to understand why. Leo never acts like he is perfect. He actually is very right in being angry and going through some denial(relatable thing to do), when his first boyfriend ever of years who meant the world to him just dumps him and never tells him anything. Then just flat out ignores him and then lets Leo find out through others that he is leaving for real. We don't know fully the wrongs of Leo (all of them), just a few of them, but I already know I would explode in someone like JJ's face long ago. Speak ffs. I cannot read minds!