
I can't agree with 'he is enjoying it'
Self sabotaging, putting himself in said situation is something.
But he clearly was saying ( in his head) he doesn't like this situation.
How is this him enjoying the situation???
Regarding the first guy (the stalker), yes he was enjoying it.
But this time, it's entirely different.

I mean, at the end of the day it IS just a fictional character. as far as we can tell, he doesn't have such significant trauma backstory (yet), he's just hypersexual in his nature. maybe the author just wrote him off as a masochist ?? idk .. just bc someone likes rough/grape play doesn't mean they got some tragic backstory

he's going through internal conflict, obiously. the guy he's rlly into straight up is rejecting him, so in a way, the MC is getting back at him in this manner. but lets remember that he actively went out of his way to sleep around with a rando, he's disliking the situation bc the bartender is insanely cringey & aggressive. he's hating it bc he hates the creepy bartender, but he went out of his way to sleep with him for payback
big emphases that the MC clearly enjoys what's happening to him. thats the whole point of his personality and sexual tastes.