J.J is not the only one at fault.

Minatobro September 8, 2024 10:24 pm

People in these comments need to understand that although what J.J did is very wrong and in no way excusable what Leo is doing is even worse. There is a limit to how much disrespect a person can tolerate. In fact Leo is the main problem in their relationship. Leo has reduced J.J from a boyfriend to a sex toy that he can have his way with whenever and wherever. In addition to a sex toy, Leo also treats J.J like a secretary. J.J is not Leo’s bitch and someone he can walk all over. He is Leo’s boyfriend and not only does he deserve love but also respect. Just because J.J was kind to Leo and helped him out is his life Leo took advantage of his kindness. Why does Leo have to be told by other people and J.J himself that he shouldn’t treat J.J like a sex toy and secretary? Does he have no common sense at all? Does he have zero awareness of how to treat his own boyfriend with even minimum amount of decency and respect? Even if Leo has no common sense and zero awareness people around him(like his manager, friends and sisters etc) have been telling him for years to treat J.J properly or he will lose him. Although it’s not shown in the manhwa till now but judging from the story I’m pretty sure even J.J himself has tried to tell him multiple times. Leo is just not interested in listening because he’s too self absorbed. He’s behaving like J.J brought that breakup out of nowhere and without communicating anything when clearly it’s indicated that Leo choose to ignore the signs. J.J also probably gave up seeing Leo’s behaviour and I don’t blame him because J.J is also human. He has a heart and he’s badly hurt too. He’s seeing that Leo has absolutely no consideration for him and he’s given up because he is exhausted and no longer has the strength. He probably broke up with Leo after thinking it over and over again and it definitely took a lot of strength to leave Leo since their lives are so entwined with each other. Even after their breakup J.J kept hope that maybe Leo would finally understand now and be willing to communicate with him and make a change for them but Leo further humiliated J.J by confirming that indeed J.J was nothing but a sex toy to him. Here J.J is worried sick about Leo after the accident and blaming himself for distracting Leo and there Leo is reducing their years of relationship to nothing but rubble. J.J then finally snapped and treated Leo like he was treating him. It’s true that J.J was too rough and there is no excuse for his behaviour. What J.J did is wrong but he literally reached his breaking point. I’m not defending J.J at all for that incident but I’m simply providing context because context indeed does matter. In regards to context, I would also like to point out that Leo knew J.J disliked sex outside and yet he still pushed J.J to have sex with him outside in the starting chapter(an example of how Leo never took J.J into consideration and only cared about himself). Finally in the current chapter J.J has no intention of making Leo jealous. In fact he’s actively trying to get as far away from Leo as possible(maybe even moving to Germany as suggested by the German language book) and cutting ties step by step. Leo is the one who’s hounding J.J for sex not the other way around. Seeing the direction the story is going in it’s pretty clear that even the sex will come to an end soon and J.J will be long gone before Leo comes to his senses.

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