WHAT
He then joked about being the cherry popper since he’d been a lot of people’s first. Extra creepy now looking at it now since I was 19 and he was in his mid 20s at the time ☠
That’s so creepy I’m scared now, I’m still a virgin at 18 for the same creepy stories I’ve heard
I’d say: just go with someone you trust like a friend or in a relationship and you should be ok. I went with someone I’d met like a week before at a party. Take it as slow as you want and communicate if you’re uncomfortable at any time. Also I didn’t know this until much later but if they’re doing it right it should NOT hurt. Don’t feel pressured to just get it over with since that’s what societal pressures tell you, go at your own pace and understand that the first couple of times even with someone you really know it’s probably going to be awkward and that’s ok
Yes!! Heavy on it should NOT hurt. I hear so many horrible stories about peoples first time hurting, it's on the men.
Damn. Some people just get ALL the luck for their first time I just had a quiet painful first that ended with him saying “well that was awkward” ☠