
Well.. he is gullible though….. If we look at the statistics of the people who are victim to grooming a majority of them are subject to suggestibility. It might not sound nice but majority of these victims are actually gullible.. ( not meaning they are dumb but meaning they are easy to deceive. In this charas case he is both gullible&dumb so yeah do whatever you like with this info.)

Sorry for your experience and i hope you are healing. I’m not going to debate about this topic with you as i feel you might have a rightful sensitivity to the issue. I’m not saying he is dumb because he is being groomed. I’m saying he is dumb AND he is being groomed. Not everyone who is groomed is dumb just the character is. Real life victims tend to be naive and easily tricked. Which has the same meaning with gullible but the word itself has negative connotations so it is okay for you to be sensitive about it. They might not pinpoint what is going on but deep down most of them know things are not supposed to be that way. Which is why they avoid direct confrontation about the issue from other people cause they fear their gut feelings might be right. I’m going to end this convo here as i feel it went on too long as it was meant to be a comment on a hobby site regarding my feelings about the story.
Tbh i think they are not even boyfriends probably. I think the hyung is groomed him from childhood probably from middle or high school. I think whatever thing he keeps mentioning that happened before was hos doing too! I bet on that. I can stand people THIS stupid yeomin is a whole another level of being gullible. I think i might comeback after some progress is made with his EQ. I will come check it out after chapter 20 or smth maybe. Someone please help tag me when yeomin learns the truth and enlightens about his situation and after a whole messy break up. Please tag after that if you don’t forget about me. Ty ^^