As someone who had the same experience I just feel like it comes down to if your partner actually knows how a women's body works. You need to actually stimulate a women enough to get lose to be able to fit it, but they don't have Internet nor prior experience so it makes sense as to why it hurt so much
ikr me and my partner have to stop midway during our first time because I just can't take pain... I already bled and it was just pure pain it wasn't even all in... and he wasn't that big either
Omg yes! I feel like most guys get their sexual advice from porn so they are never sure how to prepare a girl or how to set the mood (girls in porn are always already wet and ready it’s crazy)…. I had really good compatibility with my partner and he had really good advice before we had sex but you can’t help being nervous like I was nervous af and that impacts it a lot, that’s why you gotta relax and if your partner isn’t helping you out with that it’s only gonna hurt
Yes!! It’s such a crazy idea that guys actually think that most women like big dicks, they hurt so much (specially when the guy doesn’t know what he’s doing)!! Also, I bled so much that on the next day it was almost like I had a period, that one drop of blood on this chapter is insane bc I’m sure she would have bled a lot more
As a girl who lost her virginity with a fairly big dick I can tell that if my partner hadn’t been patient I would have passed out from the pain in the first few minutes, I feel so bad for our queen I felt her pain in my core