on one hand we have a bottom that have severe self worth issues and is a victim of abuse and blackmail that's dealing with things in his way (and you people should really stop blaming the victim ??) by not communicating and actually not dealing with it
which in the other hand shift the blame on the top when it is clearly not his fault ?? he established clear boundaries with the bottom who knew what he was going into but made all sort of communication mistakes cos of his abuse and trauma, the top ain't a fucking telepath, he could not know
somehow this situation is very frustrating lmao
on one hand we have a bottom that have severe self worth issues and is a victim of abuse and blackmail that's dealing with things in his way (and you people should really stop blaming the victim ??) by not communicating and actually not dealing with it
which in the other hand shift the blame on the top when it is clearly not his fault ?? he established clear boundaries with the bottom who knew what he was going into but made all sort of communication mistakes cos of his abuse and trauma, the top ain't a fucking telepath, he could not know
i dunno, it's frustrating how it's done