Speak up!
Thank you. I was really expecting to get blasted for that. Im glad someone else saw it too
Omg people are blaming him?! WTH like bro this dude has been so traumatized and abused by that fucker and were they really in a relationship because a lover shouldn’t act like that
Woojin is 100 percent a victim of abuse both physical and psychological, and it went on for years. But he should absolutely not have jumped into another relationship that fast, it was way too soon and he needed time and avwhole lot of therapy, but Taehan was a good guy, he was genuine and the complete opposite of that pos Minho so I don't blame Woojin for liking him. Even though Taehan tried talking things out, asked several times if Woojin was OK or upset, that bastard's influence was so ingrained it's not easy to break free and anyone condemning Woojin has never been in an abusive relationship.
Uhhh, no decent human being (in this case Taehwan) deserves to be at the receiving end of someone else’s misery.
I understand he’s been traumatized, but that doesn’t excuse his bad behavior, and for deliberately, and VOLUNTARILY hurt (cheat) Taehwan—a precious person who just wanted to love someone, and pursue his acting career.
So NO, he deserves to be bashed, not for his past traumas, but for his cheating.
Imagine traumatizing someone else because you’re also hurting.
Does that sound logical to you?
I’m hurt, so let me HURT A NICE GUY WITH PASSION because I feel miserable and indecisive.
Let me traumatize him and make him feel miserable for loving me genuinely.
As i said, i get it, the cheating is definitely awful. Taewan definitely didnt deserve that. Ive been cheated on. That shit is a knife to the heart. But, looking at Woojins entire life, what hes been exposed to. Being gaslit and both sexually/psychologically abused for almost a decade, that poor young man is not thinking straight either. Dont get me wrong, his behavior sucks. He should take accountability for that. Just cut him some slack. He was essentially brainwashed by Minho all those years. When thats all he knew until Taewan, in his mind, he was protecting Taewan from Minho by sleeping with Minho. If you go back and read those chapters, he wasnt exactly a full participant in what was happening. Lots of pressure and duress. Hold the man accountable yes, but hes not trash
Absolutely!
exactly how I feel
Did ya read my whole post? I said I totally understood the anger about his cheating. No one wants to be on the receiving end of that. HOWEVER, based on his life to date, from birth to that moment, hes so twisted around and brainwashed that its not surprising. The boy needs therapy, not people enforcing what minho says to him
Ive seen comment after comment through this entire story about Woojin being trash. While i do understand where people are coming from in the sense that he did cheat. It seems that no one is taking into account the almost decades worth of trauma the poor kid has gone through. Not to mention his childhood. His first bf in college was a POS. Then we have Minho, that gaslit, psychologically abused AND sexually abused Woojin for 7 years. Woojin has had literally no real support system. No one to say “Hey, you need to get out and get some therapy”. No one on his side until he met Taewan. Then Minho bytch ass finds him again and uses all his terrible psychological tricks on Woojin to scare him and twist his mind around. Scared him into thinking that he HAD to fuck Minho in order to protect Taewan. I guess all im trying to say is CUT WOOJIN SOME FUCKING SLACK. The mans mind is so twisted in knots from his past he doesn't know up from down.
Whew….sorry for the rant. My bad yall!