I totally agree.
exactly this. like why's everyone blaming geon wtf he's being cornered like that, in a PUBLIC setting, in korea where same-sex relations are literally a taboo (even now). like??? he just said he would talk but in a more private setting and apparently suo doesn't understand smh and fr he could ask in a more mature way and deal with this situation. it's so bad ugh
I totally agree o. the part where Suo just wanted to talk to Geon ab it publicly. Like he could’ve gone somewhere private just to show he cares about his boyfriend feelings, ESPECIALLY when he knows he hates PDA and such. But where i disagree is about how it none of Suo’s business with Geon’s past, like in retrospect yeah he should mind his business but if people going up to your bf talking about sexergizer, ID BE READY TO ASK HIM AB THAT SHIT TOO. Like to some degree you shouldn’t keep your partner in the dark, especially if multiple people are talking about it openly
Yeah no, I would ask too. I probably wasn't clear about it since I was upset with him while writing. My point on that was basically that he was not asking, he would rather force it out of him than ask. That's what rubbed me the wrong way. I have no issue with him asking, especially with people talking to him about it like you said. But he can't expect Geon to fess up and then get mad when he doesn't because he never asked him about it in the first place. Especially when he says that line, "do I have to force you to tell me so I can tell you I don't mind?" (Not actually a direct quote but what I remember him saying) and it pisses me off because he could just tell Geon about what the people had told him and that his past doesn't bother him. Geon avoids telling him because he's worried it'll put him off, which isn't an irrational fear since too many people come across partner who get into a hissy fit if they weren't a virgin. I dunno, just from my point of view Suo doesn't really have a risk factor if he instead just came out and asked about it, whereas Geon has this anxiety and risk that Suo would leave. (Even though we know he wouldn't.)
NO FR cause Suo really didn’t think ab wtf he was talkin ab and since he acted emotionally, he just assumed that talking ab it right then and there was okay, since he’s a straightforward guy. BUT HOLY FUCK SUO AND GEON, like you’re so right him saying it was okay and he didn’t mind would be sm better IM ACTUALLY CONFUSED WHY HE DIDNT. But Ik a lot of people hate him rn cause of what he did but given his personality and his own insecurities ab the relationship i can get why he thought it wasnt a big deal. I honestly hope they talk this dumb shit out and don’t do that dumb break cause im like 99% sure then gonna overthink it and/or have weird make-up sex(?)
(not saying you said you hated him, i just wanted to see if anyone felt this from him too （￣へ￣）
exactly! it makes me so mad and i just saw another comment blame geon again most of them have never had to worry about coming out in a conservative country like korea
My irritation with Suo makes my thoughts all jumbled. Of course they both have their own flaws, however I feel like Suo's respect towards Geon's feelings isn't as much as he thinks. I mean Geon's consistently doing things in order to please Suo, because he loves him and want to make him happy. And Geon not telling him about his past, really isn't Suo's business (apart from like safe sex ie. Avoiding stds, but this is bl manga so that doesn't exist here apparently). A lot of people can have very proactive pasts, but still go on to have very happy relationships without sharing about all their previous partners. So I don't know why Suo feels the need to try and force that information out of him, if he heard about it and is worried or curious, literally just ask, preferably not in a public place. Which is what irritates me the most, nobody wants their personal and private matters to be dished out in a very public place. If Geon said let's talk about it somewhere private, do that. I couldn't even imagine the amount of stress I would go through personally if someone did that to me. Do I think Geon might've escalated things a bit with his break suggestions, yeah, a bit. But he's also clearly overwhelmed by the entire situation, so I'm not entirely surprised it was the first thing he thought of to get out of it. And seeing Suo's past didn't really help my empathy, because it just made me realize he would know that sometimes people really do care too much about other people, he literally got bullied by people like that. So for him to just be like, no here cares, just rubs me the wrong way. I dunno, they just need better communication and learn that even in relationships there can be boundaries or subjects people don't want to talk about. (￣～￣；)