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Because I eat it up everytime

Real

Tbh I’ve only ever seen BL make a big deal out of a dry orgasm. According to men it doesn’t even feel better. Usually feels weaker, worse, hurts or no different at all. I don’t get it either. I wanna see the visualssss. In the actual real world ppl seem to make a bigger deal of squirting or ruined orgasms. Interestingly I harder ever see ruined orgasms being talked about in BL.

Actually tho, sex in BL…I kinda think there’s so much artists can do but this is the path they all choose: pp to pp grinding, thigh sex, normal sex. I don’t even get the appeal of the thigh sex or intercrural sex. I get it feels good for the person doing the penetrating but not for the thighs..

Dry orgasms can actually feel better, I don't think it ever feels worse but that's just me. But they do feel like the real deal and sometimes, in rare cases, less sensational.

As for ruined orgasms and other forms of sex, when you look at the BL world and what their stories are usually about, the characters aren't all that educated. Unless it's a setting with bdsm elements, there aren't many stories where you would see the characters trying something apart from what the world is comfortable with/used to.

I mean, you would hardly expect characters from a highschool mates to lovers trope to try something extreme, because it usually doesn't go like that

Mm I see what you’re saying. I don’t read hs couple BL. I read hardcore or BDSM BL but I always feel like all the sex is the same. Every BL has to include intercrural sex, irrumatio and coitus. And also has to include a minimum of 1 quitting scene and 1 dry orgasm scene. It’s like how all lesbian porn has to include scissoring even tho actual lesbians don’t do that. Why is intercrural sex so hot to them I don’t get it. I don’t even find it visually appealing ngl. It’s so so mid. (I sometimes giggle to myself because I feel like you’d probably feel the leg hair during intercrural sex lol). And BDSM BL generally just like…..sucks. I almost always think “GUYS THERE’S MORE THAN JUST SOUNDING, SPANKING AND BONDSGE ASARRFG”

Anyway…yeah despite all this I don’t get a lot of what fujoshis find appealing despite reading a lot of BL myself. Including dry orgasms and thigh fucking. I don’t like how pretty BL always is. I would genuinely be more impressed if a character achieved a hands free orgasm than a dry orgasm. At least it’s visually interesting.

Akdkfhskf how did squirting correct to quitting lmao