I just need to rant a bit sorry not sorry

love the rant,,, sooooooo trueee

I appreciate this comment lmao

SAME, Kang has always had doubts because of the age difference! If it wasn't for Yi Young's friends & Secretary Cha who pushed Kang, they wouldn't have gotten together!

For real!!

To leave some things unsaid. - If anything, sorry but I still applaud Kang here. Why? This just means they'd be able to talk about anything. He obviously can't show enough how much he loves Ahn. This 'stupid, condescending and absolutely insensitive' is from Ahn's POV but that was never Kang's intention.

Sorry for the long reply. Ignore this if you want but I just had to clarify. I don’t think you understood what I meant by saying that he should leave some things unsaid. It’s not that he shouldn’t be transparent, it’s about basic social tact. Being a good communicator is not just about always saying what is directly on your mind and letting your intrusive thoughts win. Kang, the so-called mature and experienced partner who should know better (according to himself), slipped and showed his insecurities about their future. Passing it off as him being mature and understanding. He did not do that to benefit Yiyoung. He did that to protect himself. Otherwise he wouldn’t be raging in a car rn regretting it. So clearly that conversation did not steer them towards being able to ‘talk about anything.’ It created drama. They more or less just started dating. Imagine you start dating someone and they’re already talking about ‘well one day we will def break up and I will let you go, because I’m soooo mature, and there’s plenty of fish in the sea.’ For most people that’s quite insensitive. Objectively so. That’s not just Yiyoung’s pov. It was inappropriate to say that. Just because we are alive and one day we will all die, should we talk about death instead of enjoying life?

Also, just because one’s intention is not negative it doesn’t save them from the negative consequences of that intent. I’m not sure why you think that’s a defence. That’s like the equivalent of saying ‘I’m sorry you felt that way’ is an actual apology. Yiyoung has the right to feel however he wants no matter the intent. Anyway I’m sure after this drama they will be ok. They just needed some spice.

Yep! Exactly how I see it.

Just because we are alive and one day we will all die, should we talk about death instead of enjoying life? - Yes. You can still enjoy life while accepting the fact and even preparing when you die. That's why it's best to invest on life insurance or funeral packages while you're still alive so that your loved ones are not burdened when you do die, whether its far or near future.

Kang being angry about himself is honestly because he said those things when he has not showed enough and proved how much he loves Ahn - which caused Ahn to feel offended because he interprets it as Kang's love is not on the same weight as Ahn's does. They have been trying to talk but either someone is drunk or that work - now a 3rd party - is interrupting them. And him not expecting that jealousy is a thing for him. He hasn't realized yet that he can be jealous and yet still do what he said if that day ever comes.

The conversation about letting go should have never been done while they were both drunk. Imo, it was a good talk but just in an inappropriate timing. If anything, Kang is already deep and even comfortable in the relationship that he was able to spit that out, while Ahn is basically still on honeymoon phase.

Yiyoung has the right to feel however he wants no matter the intent. - I don't think Ahn was wrong with getting upset especially when he and Kang's view of their relationship is quite mismatched. Kang just has to prove he does love Ahn, as deeply as Ahn does.

Sure we make arrangements for funerals and all that, but not when we’re twenty or teenagers. If we think of their relationship in those terms, that’s what Kang is doing. It’s too soon to talk about shit like that, hence the lacking social tact and that maturity facade crumbles. That’s what I was talking about. The root of the problem in my opinion is still that he’s acting out of insecurity and not from a place of love and ‘selflessness.’ You probably disagree.

I guess I should have also mentioned that death is kind of an extreme comparison. I am making a bit of a false equivalency between what is inevitable and what might not come to pass per se. He’s not talking as if they might break up one day, but that they definitely will. You can appreciate how messed up that is yeah?

Anyway let’s just agree to disagree. What you and I think is better for a long-term relationship and communication is just different. I really don’t want to have an endless back and forth.

Pretty sure Kang would apologize for saying them after Doyeon arc is resolved. Just not sure if Ahn will understand Kang's perspective in return so that they'd meet at a compromise. They are after all a couple that communicates pretty well. Doyeon arc gave Kang opportunity to prove he can fight for the relationship when he can - the part that was lacking in his speech, imo.

Yeah agree to disagree, whether he should have said it or not.