If it’s the parents fault that it happened then yes they is to blame, and his father did experiments on him and forced him to do it with omegas against his will. If he grew up like that I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t know how to fix something that he never knew how to if he had the opposite done to him. If you are repeatedly getting the same thing done to you and the same words stuck in your head by your parents then yes that will affect you as an adult. So I feel like it is wrong to say he should simply fix it and not blame his parents when his father is the one that caused it
And I am not justifying what he is doing to the uke is right because he shouldn’t be doing that he should get his act together, but the part of not blaming the parents.. yeah.. no. But I think the uke should also speak out and express his feelings and put his foot down
preach sistah couldn't agree more
This guy has all the money in the world to spend on getting his son treatment and then some. Are you really trying to argue that he doesn't know about therapy when he has medical professionals at his beck and call? I assure you he knows that therapy exists. The least he can do is go. He certainly needs it.
He's in his 30s you can't keep blaming your parents for shit that happened in your child hood especially if you have the resources to find healthy coping mechanisms, but refuse to do so.
But at the same it’s not just his money, it’s also his father which he is still scared of and finding a way to bring him down. And yes he can still get treatment I’m not justifying his actions or saying I get why he did what he did because he should’ve never did that stuff and yes he should get threrapy, but the stuff his father did to him in the past and still now during the present is his fathers fault for what he did to his son. But the Seme is just as bad because he could’ve got help but chose not to. I’m not saying he should do bad stuff because of his past, i’m saying yes it’s his father’s fault for what happened to him and he is to blame because none of that would’ve happened if his father never experimented on him. I don’t know if he would have still been a bad person or not but as of now the way your parents teach you us how you turn out for example if your parents never taught you home training then you would be disrespectful and stuff versus parents that did and you know what you doing whether you choose to be respectful or not. I’m blaming his father for the stuff he did but I am also blaming the Seme for not getting help and continuing to be a bad person(づ￣ ³￣)づ
At a point and in time in your life you gotta realize yeah I had a shitty up bringing....but once you're old enough that's your job to fix your personality and not blame your parents.