Nah. There's no excuse for his behavior. THAT is not the uke's fault.
What I do blame the uke for is the current situation. Mostly because as women we are usually taught not to get into men's car and houses carelessly. Unless it's someone we are interested in or have deep trust in. He sleeping in his car after he tried to kiss him and going into his house after that feels extremely careless imo.
Think about it. Its his ex. He tried to kiss him. And just got slapped by a woman in the street. He should've confirmed what exactly he wanted to give him and insisted in waiting outside the door, not just going in.
More than blaming him is more like... the feeling of seeing bestie drunk texting the trashy ex and thinking... "Girl seriously??? Wtf do you expect to happen?"
It's the feeling that he was inviting trouble to himself... and that it could be seen as sending mixed signals... we just know best how hard it is to convince a guy that is interested that a NO is a NO and not a MAYBE. The I want to give you something is such a washed up excuse that as soon as reading it we expect him to try something shitty... again, it's no excuse for that hansdome pos behavior, that's on him... but uke's behavior is just... kinda dumb in a way...
His ex Just comitted a fucking crime?? And there were people blaming It on the uke??