Chapter 38 is annoying me more than

Rodtv October 23, 2024 6:25 pm

Chapter 38 is annoying me more than give the giddy feeling. So it’s fine for ML to sleep around. But he doesn’t like the idea of her lookup what rubber is and look at other dudues thingy.(/TДT)/

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    Yukihina October 23, 2024 8:12 pm

    Lost in cultural translation; Kirishima is a traditionalist. It's not that he minds, it's just polite to not subject women to an onslaught of dick pics. Mind you she's like...16-17 at best.

    Rodtv October 23, 2024 11:50 pm
    Lost in cultural translation; Kirishima is a traditionalist. It's not that he minds, it's just polite to not subject women to an onslaught of dick pics. Mind you she's like...16-17 at best. Yukihina

    No, I know that the both FL & ML is 16,17. That is why she is innocent in sexuality aspect but surely mature, not naive. But I just wondering that I thought school would teach the high school students about s*x education.
    So I’m confused. Also, I think it is not right that he is tryi

    Rodtv October 23, 2024 11:56 pm
    Lost in cultural translation; Kirishima is a traditionalist. It's not that he minds, it's just polite to not subject women to an onslaught of dick pics. Mind you she's like...16-17 at best. Yukihina

    Oops, hit the wrong key. Anyway, so far from how I understand is that they have absolutely trust with each other. But I don’t think they are in love yet. ML seem kinda obsessed and lust after FL. I just feel bad that FL is still too innocent. She is even too scared to look up what rubber is, just bc the ML want to keepgate

    Yukihina October 24, 2024 12:14 am
    Oops, hit the wrong key. Anyway, so far from how I understand is that they have absolutely trust with each other. But I don’t think they are in love yet. ML seem kinda obsessed and lust after FL. I just feel... Rodtv

    Excuse me if this is blunt, I don't say this with bad intentions, but it seems like you're projecting onto the series instead of actually understanding where it comes from. It sounds like you're blaming Kirishima specifically when it doesn't matter if it was Shouma or any other guy, they'd all give her the same answer. Because all the men around her household carry traditional (yakuza) value of women are to be demure, upstanding nadeshiko---and not only does she understand that, she is used to it. He isn't trying to gatekeep her or anything, he's just trying to be tactful about it by teaching her at a later time. He literally said he would, so she could avoid the obscenities. And she's also chosen to avoid it by not looking it up.

    Yoshino is not in love with Kirishima, and in the begining neither was Kirishima, but by ch 38: the story definitely made it clear, he's made it clear, and she's already understood (literally in text) at this point in time---he loves her for real. It's literally there word for word, I don't know what to tell you. Yeah she's innocent but she's not stupid. No one can actually stop her from doing what she wants, but she made the decision to trust him and not look it up on her own. He's not being hypocritical if that's what you're getting at.

    And yes, they have sex education in Japan but it's carried out in small stages across school years, and it doesn't actually get into the details of safe sex, just the technical aspects. So slang terms like rubber/gomu aren't taught; and neither are graphic images ever used. It's not even mandatory in some areas so there are even adults who don't know much about sex ed. Japan is an extremely reserved country altogether. The people who are interested in sex will find out, and those who aren't simply won't.

    Rodtv October 24, 2024 12:30 am
    Excuse me if this is blunt, I don't say this with bad intentions, but it seems like you're projecting onto the series instead of actually understanding where it comes from. It sounds like you're blaming Kirishi... Yukihina

    That is a dedication reply. I’m truly appreciate it and I dont mind at all. Honestly after rethinking and reread the chaps, i did projecting my point of view of monogamy/polygamy, but not from other series. I know Kirishima has no obligation to be with only Yoshino when they aren’t even a thing yet.

    Rodtv October 24, 2024 12:39 am
    Excuse me if this is blunt, I don't say this with bad intentions, but it seems like you're projecting onto the series instead of actually understanding where it comes from. It sounds like you're blaming Kirishi... Yukihina

    Wrong key again, And Kirishima did somehow come to term that he love and care for her. But Seem like it’s different for her. In term of feelings, Kirishima is a running way ahead now, and Yoshino is hasn’t caught up yet, and idk will she ever be.
    I didn’t know Sex Ed in JP is like that. Tks for explain. I just assume bc from other manga/anime depicted it more in details.
    Anyway, My thought about this manga is a mixed feeling. Therefore, my comments can be confusing and jumbled up. Heck, even I myself can’t understand what im trying to said. Im not trying to say it should be cute and romanticly at all. Bc Life is complex and appreciate the author is showing us those different side of love.