this is such a sticky situation. I think Garam was not ready for this relationship and needs to communicate more.
But in Garam’s point of view, Jaehyuk was straight a few or so months ago + was even trying to sleep around with women like a month ago (with the only thing that had stopped him being that he couldn’t get it up, which wasn’t even a conscious choice, meaning he would have one through with it if he could get it up)
It’s pretty obvious (at least to the readers) that Garam’s ex was a self proclaimed “straight guy” who left him high and dry
Don’t get me wrong, Jaehyuk is completely valid to feel the way he feels at the given moment. But this doesnt make Garam simply an asshole, how he’s feeling is DEFINITELY valid too.
It’s hard to believe someone has done a complete 180 turn from a homophobic fuck boy to a faithful loving gay boyfriend ESPECIALLY when in Garam’s life time, him and many gay people around him have been fucked over by “straight” guys who fool around with other guys.
ending note: COMMUNICATION IS KEY. Garam needs to be more open and Jaehyuk needs to start asking the right questions
this is such a sticky situation. I think Garam was not ready for this relationship and needs to communicate more.
But in Garam’s point of view, Jaehyuk was straight a few or so months ago + was even trying to sleep around with women like a month ago (with the only thing that had stopped him being that he couldn’t get it up, which wasn’t even a conscious choice, meaning he would have one through with it if he could get it up)
It’s pretty obvious (at least to the readers) that Garam’s ex was a self proclaimed “straight guy” who left him high and dry
Don’t get me wrong, Jaehyuk is completely valid to feel the way he feels at the given moment. But this doesnt make Garam simply an asshole, how he’s feeling is DEFINITELY valid too.
It’s hard to believe someone has done a complete 180 turn from a homophobic fuck boy to a faithful loving gay boyfriend ESPECIALLY when in Garam’s life time, him and many gay people around him have been fucked over by “straight” guys who fool around with other guys.
ending note: COMMUNICATION IS KEY. Garam needs to be more open and Jaehyuk needs to start asking the right questions