I agree with TIMA like who’s this diva!!?? I hope these fucking ppl in the comment secti...

kangjunissookyoot November 1, 2024 12:20 pm

I agree with TIMA like who’s this diva!!?? I hope these fucking ppl in the comment section have a mindset like this persos coz wtf r u all talking bout? Like u always tallkinh shit when he literally know that he have APD and you expect him to be green flag or have a good personality? fukcin dumbass can y’all expand ur understanding? i can’t with these type of ppl they will read this kind of shit then if the character didn’t meet their expectations they would go batshit?? Lmao like u think its easy to have anti personality disorder? Why yall mad that he have no empathy and manipulative when that is literally the symptoms of APD? I am not defending his behavior but yall so ignorant saying he just would go to therapy and his disorder make a justification for his behavior? No one is saying that and lee woo yeon is aware of that, he is just explaining wha he feels on having that kind of disorder to inseob AND THIS IS HOW THIS STORIES GOES and if this didn’t meet your expectations you can always drop? the problem here is yall project what u want to something that is out of your control then be unreasonably mad coz that is not how u want. Smh

Responses
    Mellow29 November 1, 2024 12:35 pm

    This is the comment right here. Like, he has a disorder, that’s something he can’t control, and yall want him to act as if he doesn’t have one?! That’s insane

    Etch November 1, 2024 1:11 pm

    a lot of people have apd, it's not common, but many who have it live completely normal lives. the key here really is that it needs to be addressed while young, and everybody in the family needs to arrange psychiatric help to deal with it. having a disorder does not excuse you from acting like a civil, decent person. there are aspects of himself that he can control, despite having a disorder. he should have arranged psychiatric help long ago, since he's an adult not a child. and that is on him.

    hollywood_girl November 1, 2024 1:30 pm
    This is the comment right here. Like, he has a disorder, that’s something he can’t control, and yall want him to act as if he doesn’t have one?! That’s insane Mellow29

    Apd doesn’t mean you rape someone without consequences…

    Mellow29 November 1, 2024 1:35 pm
    Apd doesn’t mean you rape someone without consequences… hollywood_girl

    I never said that did I? I was saying that the APD explains a lot of missed cues in trying to be affectionate to Peter. Yes, the rape was wrong and he knew better in that aspect, but a lot of comments want him to just change overnight and that’s hard with a disorder such as that

    hollywood_girl November 1, 2024 1:41 pm
    I never said that did I? I was saying that the APD explains a lot of missed cues in trying to be affectionate to Peter. Yes, the rape was wrong and he knew better in that aspect, but a lot of comments want him ... Mellow29

    Tbqh giving him an unofficial APD diagnosis is not right. His character is terrible and they’ve introduced disgusting factors besides the lack of emotional awareness. They’re just making things up and a 180 in this fantasy world wouldn’t mean he’s more empathetic but instead just sweeter to the MC. That’s what readers are expecting in a redemption arc. If I have to overlook the rape and abuse then I can’t take the APD seriously

    Tima November 1, 2024 2:05 pm

    Thanks for agreeing with me. People are so shallow. He literally has apd why do people expect him to behave otherwise? Even in real life this is a disorder that often people can't get past and all you can hope is that they don't become criminals. They know what morality is they just can't act on it. I blame social media for diminishing mental illness to only the kawaii stuff like autism. I don't know people think therapist visits can fix such things

    kangjunissookyoot November 1, 2024 2:13 pm
    a lot of people have apd, it's not common, but many who have it live completely normal lives. the key here really is that it needs to be addressed while young, and everybody in the family needs to arrange psych... Etch

    Just because someone is doing that doesn’t mean it can apply to anyone else? Doesn’t mean sumone have APD means they have the same capacity. Have yall think before saying that? I know ur point but if u would insist that shit here it would not happen because that’s not how the story goes right? How bout u find sum stories that would match ur expectations??? After all this is FICTION and suggesting what would lee woo yeon should do when he was kid is useless? how about just go with flow? APD is serious just because you said this and that it means it can work literally

    Etch November 1, 2024 2:35 pm
    Just because someone is doing that doesn’t mean it can apply to anyone else? Doesn’t mean sumone have APD means they have the same capacity. Have yall think before saying that? I know ur point but if u woul... kangjunissookyoot

    spoiler: you're gonna feel stupid in the coming chapters bc he absolutely knows right from wrong, he's only explaining his disorder to get sympathy from mc. I can barely understand you btw, your english is barely comprehensible, so i hope i'm not misunderstanding you. yes he is an asshole but it's not because he has apd. that's what people are saying, that he does have control he could have done the right thing, he just didn't . i have no problem reading about toxic characters, this is interesting to me, and within my expectations. but people like you who can't seem to understand that even people with mental disorders like APD should be held accountable for their actions are so dumb.

    kangjunissookyoot November 1, 2024 2:59 pm
    a lot of people have apd, it's not common, but many who have it live completely normal lives. the key here really is that it needs to be addressed while young, and everybody in the family needs to arrange psych... Etch

    Did we read the same story? Cuz what do you mean? He was acting civil and decent right? He said he is trying to learn how to be normal in socializing? Some of his actions and behavior is unacceptable to us who is normal right but APD is not literally easy okay and he cannot understand what is moral to not coz he don’t have that kind of feelings, Doesn’t mean an APD person go to therapy or learn sum behavior that is morally right it means they can’t be triggered at some point. It can trigger their disorder at some point and that’s how he showed it in the past chapters right? He would go mad crazy asfuck when he is triggered, his symptoms is unavoidable because of course he do have APD, like u want him to act like a normal person when in fact he is not, even they learn what is socially normal u cannot avoid the fact that what’s normal to us is not normal to them and THAT IS UNACCEPTABLE for us who don’t have that kind of disorder I KNOW but what can we do? it can have treatment but it cannot be cured, it means they would still show their disorder at sum point when they are triggered. And the rape scene no one is saying that is justifiable pls, we just want yall to understand that having APD is not easy at all and therapy and treatment are not enough for him to be acting decent and civil everyday/everytime. And we are talkingAPD here who lack of remorse and concern, they are reluctant on seeking treatment lets be honest here so saying sumthing like that is literally not easy.

    Etch November 1, 2024 5:37 pm
    Did we read the same story? Cuz what do you mean? He was acting civil and decent right? He said he is trying to learn how to be normal in socializing? Some of his actions and behavior is unacceptable to us who ... kangjunissookyoot

    i hear you, i understand what you are saying. it must really be very hard to have ASPD, and not have a conscience or feel guilt, and therefore not have a moral compass. however it is not like ptsd, where something horrible has happened and when it gets triggered you might react uncontrollably violent. people with APD feel all the range of emotions, most have normal levels of intelligence the only thing they are missing is empathy, a sense guilt, the thing that stops you from doing something bad just because. that's the only difference. they know right from wrong, they can mask their true selves and appear normal BECAUSE they know right from wrong. they have full capacity of doing the right thing, and MOST do. wooyeon our bright male lead of course knows right from wrong, he is actively manipulating mc and the audience right now, by saying "hey i know i'm an ass, i'm aware of it, but i won't change because this is good enough for you right?" APD doesn't get triggered like fucking asthma. therapy would have helped when he was younger, there's therapy that can help people with ASPD change their thought patterns and behaviors. Therapy can help people understand how their behavior affects others. it's not as useless as you think, and it can help him now even as an adult. whether or not he finds mc worth the effort of all that, only he can decide.