He doesn't seem like a complete AH tho. He just has a very lazy mindset and it promiscuous. His Ex, he made it clear they weren't dating. He was cold, but that happens when someone has one sided feelings and the other is just burdened by it.
i dont think he was clear to his "ex" if he still went on dates with him as the guy said, and all while knowing the guy is in love with him. he's not even being clear to haneum rn just avoiding him until haneum got really insistent to me if someone takes advantage of other people feelings for them to get sex out of it, that's an asshole. even if the other person knows about it and accepts it, there's plenty people with their same mindset and type, why not going for these people? cus they're assholes lol
forgot to add that ipsae did take advantage of haneum, he was drunk when they fucked, and their first kiss was also without consent lmao he's a bastard, not at the level of the biggest piece of shit of bl ofc but he doesnt need to get defended so early, let's see how his development goes
Just because Haneum was drunk when they had sex doesn’t mean Ipsae took advantage of him. Instances where someone is black out drunk and don’t know what they are consenting to is something different. But Haneum knew exactly what was going on and his inhibitions were just lowered. Drunk does not automatically mean can’t consent. Just wanted to put that out there
haneum wanting to do it is alright, im talking about ipsae's actions and his desire to have sex with a lightweight drinker who's also a virgin. when one of them is very experienced and the other is an innocent virgin there's some power imbalance, and when alcohol is involved it becomes more apparent, so i see it as taking advantage. not just because he was drunk but the whole situation
Thanks for explaining further and I really like your take, I definitely agree that there’s still a power dynamic when you also add that he’s inexperienced and a virgin on top of drinking
im all in for a uke being the asshole instead of the seme like 90% of the time but oh guys i really want to k1ll ipsae.
haneum is such a cutie, guys like him don't even exist