The first point, I understand. Truly, there is being mad that your partner didn't share an imp info with you and then there is feeling entitled to your partner's info. The way she got indignant when she realized he knew and did not tell her, and the way she asked him, in a confrontational manner, she lost her footing for me. You don't get to feel entitled to your partner's personal info. Yes, you can be mad if they hide a bid personal thing from you but it is up to the partner of they want to share that info with you.
In the ML's defense, he really thought until that point that she didn't want to have his kid bc he is not a noble. We have to agree they didn't have the most conventional of the starts. She was engaged to someone else of high status who she would have very much married had he not fucked it up, literally. He liked her for long but her mom insulted him at ever turn bc he is a commoner in her eyes. She only went to him as the last resort, however the ex-fiance still keeps lingering around to get her back. What's to say she would not return to him if she git the chance? They don't exactly love eo. She only married him to snub her mom anyways. If he is insecure in the relationship, we can't totally blame him. Yeah, it felt harsh bc we know she is pregnant and he does not. He simply exploded at her bc he probably thought she was being two-faced.
They both have huge issues with communication, they sometimes over do it and sometimes chuk it out the window. Also, the FL has been treated with importance all her life, so she has a tendency to drag him with her decisions. She decides first and tells him later instead of discussing it with him often. They have an unbalance relationship and they both know it. Hope they resolve it..
So what i don't understand is why the FL is mad at ML for not telling her about his father, yes it sucks that you feel like you partner doesen't trust you even when you give it your all but at the same time he and she as well are not obligated to tell eachother everything, we don't know why he is keeping it a secret, i speak for myself but when i find a partner no matter how much i trust and love him there will be some things that i will never share with him cause i don't feel comfortable talking about them to anyone not even him, so i can in a way understand him not telling her, but where he really f*cked up is the way he acted when talking abou the baby, yes i know he probably sead it so that the FL wouldn't strain herself, and he must have been dissapointed when he found out that she was taking contaceptive tea, but the way he so harshly refused to have a child would hurt anyone so the FL's anger is somewhat understandable, at the end of the day they are both wrong and the only way to fix this is to communicate, but with how thing are going it's gonna take a while for them to actually do it, but the only thing left to do is to continue reading and find out ╮(￣▽￣)╭