Saying you're a neglected child to one man who was raised an orphan and another whose mom was murdered and then left an orphan is especially wild to me. Like sure having neglecting parents is bad but she is not going through the same thing.
Well, the two of them are together trying things out and raising the child together. At least, this child will have love from two parents despite them being the same gender. She should know best that having opposite gender parents does not mean a perfect life without neglect. I don't see why she's pushing that on that on them.
"I was a neglected child"
How the fuck does that relate to their relationship, whatsoever?? Just mind your own damn business, man.