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Right? They clearly want very different things. MC wants pain and rough sex. ML wants control and obedience. MC is only in it for fun. He’s a masochist but not really submissive.
What ML wants more non-physical connection, wants to protect and provide, and is letting his trauma get the better of him.
They both get frustrated in return and can’t seem to agree on anything asides from sex.
They shouldn’t have crossed the play partners boundaries man.