
You are holding to a lot of thing that you is not serving you. There are really bad people in the world, we cant control anyone but ourselves. Can you tell a lion to be vegetarian? No, i am not stupid enough to try to change anyone. They shouldn't matter but our own. You know what felt good? When i took responsibility for my wrong decisions in life that contributed to a bad life and learned from them. Other people's action or past doesnt matter, what matter is the present and what you're doing. No one holds us but ourself. It is the self that limits the self, and only if you allow yourself to be influenced by others. This concept also allow us to feel love only if we allow it to. Love doesnt need to come from somewhere else. When you truly love yourself, you will find yourself surrounded with loving people. Wheb you are kind to yourself, you will surround yourself with kind people.
I know for sure that if anyone tells me anything bad about my husband, i will not believe them. I may not be the smartest person on earth but i believe in my own judgement to love and trust my partner. If i was wrong then i was wrong but they were my decision. If you couldnt then in the first place you shouldnt be together. WTF!!! Why would he believe anyway? Author just running out of idea and needed a filler.