I think this couple doesn't really work because seme is not a real sadist but more a domin...

Nemaki November 13, 2024 6:05 pm

I think this couple doesn't really work because seme is not a real sadist but more a dominant, and uke is a true masochist but not a real submissive. He doesn't like to listen to orders, but likes to be punished because of not listening. Except when the orders are for him to be in pain or humiliated.
While seme takes pleasure from controlling his partner, which he can't with uke who doesn't reallly listen.
But they're sexually very compatible, so that's why they lasted until now. But argue too much and have a lot of frustrations so it becomes unhealthy.

Am I right?

Responses
    Yukihina November 14, 2024 7:44 am

    That makes a lot of sense when you write it out that way.

    DeDe4U November 14, 2024 10:50 am

    Ooooh that’s a very good analysis and I never thought about it that way but it makes sense

    Uhh November 14, 2024 12:09 pm

    That’s what I’ve been saying this entire time!
    Thank you

    WishingStarz November 14, 2024 5:30 pm

    Exactly what I was thinking, that's why I'm dropping it. Even if seme is a "police officer doing an undercover sting for drugs" they're still no good plot to this story anymore.

    Uhh November 15, 2024 12:19 am
    Exactly what I was thinking, that's why I'm dropping it. Even if seme is a "police officer doing an undercover sting for drugs" they're still no good plot to this story anymore. WishingStarz

    I’m really hoping for proper character development and resolution tbh.
    Sub self destructive habits are pretty unhealthy.
    Dom’s obsessive controlling desires seem to stem from past trauma. Nothing wrong with being a Dom and finding pleasure in control with a sub who enjoys it, but the way this guy goes about it is unhealthy and he’s constantly crossing lines. He doesn’t know how to deal with sub is pushing his buttons either.

    So I’m hoping they can learn to meet at a healthy middle. Self destructive brat needs someone taking care of him and teaching him *safe* play anyways. Overbearing Dom needs a brat to teach him to let go a little and respect others’ some. Atm tho? No chemistry.