ain't no way bro.. having a traumatic past does NOT justify being shitty to your lover and making him feel just as insecure as your shitty ex did like tell me you're joking right now. we can have sympathy for him and he can be weary for sure, but not to the point jaehyuk is actually feeling like only he cares in the relationship, and doesn't mean you can instantly forgive how he's been treating him. trauma does not absolve you of all responsibility to treat your lover the way you wish to be treated
Which part of my sentence sounds like I'm joking to you? Lol like jaehyuk got into a relationship with the person he literally harrassed. If I were garam I wouldn't even given him a chance. Because the path in a relationship that started with a bad foot gonna be rocky af. Boy is still learning to accept that jaehyuk isn't an asshole like he was in the past months. And ppl alrd expect garam to be accepting jaehyuk with open arms. Fuck no ofc it's gonna takes time. Everything is still new to garam. Heck even jaehyuk's affection is still very much new to him. Knowing that in the past jaehyuk only ever been affectionate towards garam ONLY when he wanted sex from him. And what makes you think that it's gonna be easy for a person with traumatic past to trust someone who used to be a homophobic turd and not only that, that very same someone used him as an object to satisfy their sex crave. Garam being in a relationship with jaehyuk is alrd a graceful act cause in reality nobody would even want to.
Ppl getting pissy at garam as if that boy haven't got a traumatic pass by the person he trust and love...y'all should be grateful that you've never experienced that situation. And given that jaehyuk's assholish behavior in the past towards him isn't it a given if he's weary of him? An ex homophobe who used him as his little fuck toy and throw a fucking tantrum when he couldn't have that hole. So no I don't think garam was playing a victim