Why do they always have to be groomers

Panini November 19, 2024 12:08 pm

What is this obsession BL authors have with characters essentially grooming their SOs?

This story just keeps getting ickier, I’m dropping it.

Edited to add context cos some fuckers replied me with some nonsense.

I called it grooming because it was the shortest way to get my point across. I was trying to describe how obsessed BL authors are with having MLs and MCs who were somehow involved in each other lives since when said ML/MC was a child and the other was an adult. Regardless of the circumstances, I find it weird and I was trying to communicate that in not so many words hence my comment. In this case, Asperger selected Nux after discovering his existence and spent years trying to prepare him for breeding. Even though he wasn’t actively in Nux’s life until the last experiment, he often directly/indirectly shaped Nux’s lives then fucked him, got pregnant for him and ran off with the baby. Asperger has all the power in their dynamic and has used it several times, If that’s not an example of grooming then I dunno what is.

Responses
    Stype November 18, 2024 10:59 pm

    You need to look up what grooming is and then go and look up age gaps between two different species. Imagine a 300yo elf and a 30yo guy. Maybe creepy that he watched him grow (and die) many times but he didn't meet him until he was an adult, which throws grooming out the window. Get a brain.

    placid November 18, 2024 11:50 pm

    and thank god you will! lmao u have no business reading if you can’t comprehend anything.

    Panini November 19, 2024 12:05 pm

    You internet people are bullies. If you disagree with my comment then just ignore it like a normal person. Must you always result to insults? Is your life that uneventful that you need to insult people to feel something?

    I called it grooming because it was the shortest way to get my point across. I was trying to describe how obsessed BL authors are with having MLs and MCs who were somehow involved in each other lives since when said ML/MC was a child and the other was an adult. Regardless of the circumstances, I find it weird and I was trying to communicate that in not so many words hence my comment. In this case, Asperger selected Nux after discovering his existence and spent years trying to prepare him for breeding. Even though he wasn’t actively in Nux’s life until the last experiment, he often directly/indirectly shaped Nux’s lives then fucked him, got pregnant for him and ran off with the baby. Asperger has all the power in their dynamic and If that’s not an example of grooming then I dunno what is. I don’t care if you disagree with me but that does not give you the right to call me stupid or imply that I am.

    For your insults, I leave you with this- I hope you each get a horrible itch somewhere that you can’t reach and it bugs you for the number of days equal to the number of words you used in your response to my comment.

    Goodbye and get a life

    placid November 19, 2024 2:52 pm

    One of the fuckers here

    placid November 19, 2024 7:52 pm
    You internet people are bullies. If you disagree with my comment then just ignore it like a normal person. Must you always result to insults? Is your life that uneventful that you need to insult people to feel ... Panini

    One of the fuckers here
    Bro got offended people were replying to their nonsense but openly admitted they worded it wrong
    I agree with your sentiments of BL writers obsession on writing arcs that either directly involves grooming or timeskip bs and age inappropriate interaction. Cause boy it really is an epidemic in this genre. HOWEVER this doesn't apply to Owen. If you actually read it right and "understood" it you'd know.

    Owen saw Nux as a "specimen" he didnt see him as a
    "minor" he wanted to impregnate- or in this case, get impregnated. He wasn't directly involved in his life.
    Man forgot he existed UNTIL he died. He wasn't
    "grooming" him to be his lover/partner to have offspring with. He didnt see him as a human. He saw him as a lab rat! An experiment. He wasn't interacting with him. He essentially forgot about him like how we do with our science experiments. For a grooming to happen he had to cultivate Nux's personality from the get go. From the time he discovered him. FROM THE TIME HE WAS A CHILD. But he didn't, he just did what he can to make sure he didnt die. Why? Cause he was a spe.ci.men. Are you essentially saying scientists are grooming lab rats? If he was grooming Nux he had every opportunity to do so, not waiting years for him and made their eventual meetup as "natural" as he can. He couldve locked him up himself but no, one of the panels showed that he did but a scientist had to inform him he died (again) despite him deciding to lock him up cs he wasn't directly monitoring him. He had to be informed he died of anxiety and other things cs he wasn't directly involved. For a grooming to happen, a child, now adult, will have a "positive" view of the perpetrator when he comes of age and would be more willing to act on things the perpetrator insists on.
    Mf didnt even know Owen existed es he didnt appear in his life to change his personality! Grooming is disgusting, its horrible and it shouldn't be as common as it is rn in this genre, I agree but don't just throw around that word without understanding the context properly.

    Dont get me wrong I'm not defending Owen, I hate that bitch. Commented that so many times too but the one thing you wont find me being vocal about is when Im being completely ignorant and loosely using words that are so incorrect that made people type paragraphs just to reply.

    You can drop this idc. To each their own. But the one thing I hate the most is people mischaracterizing characters. We're all already in this together, reading illegally, the least we can do is not shit on the author because we can't understand infos that can't be spoon fed.

    also for someone who cant read you sure do get butthurt so easily haha. you all are bullies oh no ˙◠˙ ur wrong am right! hOpE YoU gEt an ItcH LMAO