Im getting real irritated with the guide. He keeps freaking tf out! JUST THOROUGHLY GUIDE...

umm he’s allowed to be freaked out by his literal employer constantly making him do things he isn’t comfortable with? like why was showering with him necessary

The premise of the Guide/Esper genre is sexual. A guide has sex with their esper when they are at critical limit. In that episode it shows that he is at critical. If this were a salaryman/CEO thing, i would agree with your thought process. But its not. He needs to do his job