i'm gonna be honest i understand why it might be an issue but also i think considering theyre literally elves and have insanely long life spans, it was kind of made clear that once elves mature to 30, they are considered adults, and she is 93 so i think even if he is like 100 years older than her it should be fine
I mean babe she’s 93
He’s 154 I believe in the raws
Ok so assuming Pania was 20 when they first met, we could do some math.
Pania: 93-20=73 years ago
Naos: 154-73=81 years old back then
So Naos back then was younger than Pania is now, if his current age is as stated.
I really hope the age gap isnt that bad.. The story overall is good and ngl the logic is realistic (for example how she told her why she was with the other guy instantly) but yeah THE AGE GAP.