Girl Im 19 and dont mind dating a daddy like him even if hes 40

Tokyolarry January 6, 2025 1:10 am

Girl Im 19 and dont mind dating a daddy like him even if hes 40

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    GhostCat January 25, 2025 3:09 pm

    Ew thats bad no your a child still I dont care what people say 19 and under is still a baby

    bamby˖ February 16, 2025 3:09 pm

    HELL NAH UNDER 20 IS STILL A TEENAGER BFR MAN

    Kcstar February 26, 2025 7:17 am

    I will say form 19 to 23 the diffence in how I feel about myself and have matured is insane. So I understand someone being 19 dating a 19 year old would be alarming in the real world but I think if u make sure they don't hold anything over u then u should be good.

    Blondie05 March 3, 2025 11:06 pm

    If y’all want to know the actual ages that y’all are allowed to date just use the date calculator

    Your age divide by 2 then add seven and that’s the lowest you can date and as for the highest you can date then just add seven to your current age (=・ω・=)

    Kcstar March 3, 2025 11:12 pm
    If y’all want to know the actual ages that y’all are allowed to date just use the date calculator Your age divide by 2 then add seven and that’s the lowest you can date and as for the highest you can date... Blondie05

    That math means someone 18 can date someone 43 but then u contradict urself by saying on 7 years older. Maybe I didn't understand u correctly?

    Blondie05 March 3, 2025 11:46 pm
    That math means someone 18 can date someone 43 but then u contradict urself by saying on 7 years older. Maybe I didn't understand u correctly? Kcstar

    I’ll use myself as an example

    My age: 20
    The lowest I can go is 17
    The highest I can go is 27

    For the lowest here’s the math:
    20/2 =10 now we add 7 so it makes 17

    For the highest here’s the math:
    20+7=27

    Hope this helps :))

    Kcstar March 4, 2025 7:00 am

    I did mistype earlier someone 28 can date someone 43
    43÷2=21.5+7=28.5
    But 28.5÷2=14.25+7=21.25


    So the lowest a 28 year old can date is 21.25
    But the oldest being a (28.5+7) 35.5 year old. So ig my question ends up being is the 28y allowed 2 date the 43 cuz thats their youngest. Or do they stop at 25 cuz thats their oldest?

    I have no problem with age gap dating as long as the younger one isn't being taken advantage of because of their immaturity.

    Blondie05 March 4, 2025 2:37 pm
    I did mistype earlier someone 28 can date someone 43 43÷2=21.5+7=28.5 But 28.5÷2=14.25+7=21.25So the lowest a 28 year old can date is 21.25 But the oldest being a (28.5+7) 35.5 year old. So ig my question end... Kcstar

    I agree with what you said about the age gap dating.
    Yeah the math can be kinda hard to understand ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Jojotaro April 7, 2025 3:55 am

    Let your brain marinate a little bit please ahahahaha

    Kuro June 27, 2025 12:16 pm

    Hahaha that's what I said when I was 19 too but reality is different from fiction. Most of the guys in 40's are single for a reason ,a total redflag and just looking for something fresh and young. I've learned it the hard way so I hope you choose wisely . Wishing you luck

    Qxeen_zxy July 3, 2025 3:10 am
    If y’all want to know the actual ages that y’all are allowed to date just use the date calculator Your age divide by 2 then add seven and that’s the lowest you can date and as for the highest you can date... Blondie05

    That means I can date a 17-18 year old… no thank you.

    Ocean❄ July 6, 2025 5:55 am
    Ew thats bad no your a child still I dont care what people say 19 and under is still a baby GhostCat

    (≧∀≦)When I was 17 I had a huge crush on my teacher who was 29. Theres nothing ''ew'' about it to some kids bcuz its the reason they r here. Its like saying they r disgusting for being alive. My dad is 10+ years older than my mom. She knew him since she was 21. I wouldn't be here if they never got together. I loved having an older dad. My dad had more patience with his kids due to his age. Older parents from my experience are just more relaxed in parenting than younger parents. At 19 dating a 40 year old is meh ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭, but MARRYING a 40 year old is a relationship I wouldn't push.

    Though he/she is an adult and can get legally get married if they want to that person, they will not get to grow ''old together'' (in the same generation) as a couple. One partner will spend their years being a caretaker rather than a spouse.The marriage can turn lonely for both partners. ╥﹏╥ Ppl's lives can end anytime regardless of age. Like my dad who was murdered when I was barely a pre-teen.

    Qxeen_zxy July 6, 2025 9:54 am
    (≧∀≦)When I was 17 I had a huge crush on my teacher who was 29. Theres nothing ''ew'' about it to some kids bcuz its the reason they r here. Its like saying they r disgusting for being alive. My dad is 10... Ocean❄

    My mum had me when she was 24 and my dad was 53. It was a poor relationship between the two of them but I honestly preferred my dad back then (as a young kid) but rn his views are pretty outdated and he can’t keep up with changing standards. My mum is probably gonna die before my dad because she has cancer. I’m not attached to either parent but that’s cause they’re both shitty. My point is that most humans are shitty so find the least shitty one that you like. But I do agree, don’t marry someone wayyyyyyyy above your age range because that causes a huge power dynamic that you cannot overlook. My entire childhood I saw my dad take control of finances and documents and all the details and treat my mum like she’s his daughter not his wife. It’s nice for a kid to have a more patient father or mother but it’s horrible as a spouse to have someone who calmly rips you to shreds for being “too young” while supposedly being in a partnership.

    TLDR: just keep the age gaps for casual dating. Marry your own age range (usually up to 8 years) because everyone is shitty so pick someone less likely to shit on everything you do for being young. Also as adults over 20, you really shouldn’t be going for 18 year olds. In fact, you can legally adopt an 18 year old. If they come onto you and you are fine with it and they are mature enough to handle a relationship (not marriage) with you, go ahead but you shouldn’t start the relationship at the older person. It creates an ugly power dynamic.

    GhostCat July 6, 2025 8:45 pm
    HELL NAH UNDER 20 IS STILL A TEENAGER BFR MAN bamby˖

    Thats still a kid to me

    GhostCat July 6, 2025 8:52 pm
    (≧∀≦)When I was 17 I had a huge crush on my teacher who was 29. Theres nothing ''ew'' about it to some kids bcuz its the reason they r here. Its like saying they r disgusting for being alive. My dad is 10... Ocean❄

    Yeah... ok but to act on that is gross. Im old asf but a 19 year old confessing to me in my eyes would be like a toddler its very uncomfortable I dont like pedo shit, if the affection was platonic and not romantic or sexual in ANYWAY I think thats sweet but if your encouraging pedo shit ew yes that is fucking gross