How can you make love with your rapist ??!! (/TДT)/

Ihloni May 4, 2017 8:02 am

How can you make love with your rapist ??!! (/TДT)/

Responses
    mermaidlily May 4, 2017 8:06 am

    I don't approve but might be bc sunbae realized that he was in love with him before the incident

    kokoro316 May 4, 2017 8:27 am

    Is it your first yaoi ??? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    YS2209 May 4, 2017 8:43 am
    Is it your first yaoi ??? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ kokoro316

    I'm laughing so hard of your question (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    loveowls9 May 4, 2017 9:17 am

    I agree wholeheartedly, even though it's yaoi- it's still not okay. Even if it were to happen, the fact that there was no conversation beforehand, and working it out- and he was actually having ptsd at the point of sex- it's definitely not okay

    loveowls9 May 4, 2017 9:17 am
    Is it your first yaoi ??? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ kokoro316

    Just bc it's a yaoi, doesn't make it okay~

    kyouran May 4, 2017 10:06 am

    This is a romance Yaoi story and they are both the protagonists. It was pre-established they would end up together. Also, if that is your reaction with this mild level story, might as well stop reading yaoi, because this is pervasive in the genre with thematics much darker than this manwha could ever hope to be.

    kyouran May 4, 2017 10:19 am
    Just bc it's a yaoi, doesn't make it okay~ loveowls9

    Nobody is saying rape it's ok, neither the readers nor the Manhwa. The narrative is being very clear in addressing how Minjae was traumatized, that Hyengjo was wrong and that both Minjae and Hyengjo understand it was wrong.

    kokoro316 May 4, 2017 2:06 pm
    I'm laughing so hard of your question (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ YS2209

    ...yeah but seriously... I'm just fed up with the usual topic RAPE IS BAD in yaoi....( ̄∇ ̄")
    It's annoying and pissing me off ... ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ

    Anonymous May 4, 2017 9:07 pm
    Nobody is saying rape it's ok, neither the readers nor the Manhwa. The narrative is being very clear in addressing how Minjae was traumatized, that Hyengjo was wrong and that both Minjae and Hyengjo understand ... kyouran

    LOL, that sounds like two kindergarteners getting scolded by the teacher... Well, Hyeongjo really should start everything over from kindergarten.

    Ihloni May 4, 2017 10:19 pm
    Is it your first yaoi ??? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ kokoro316

    I red so many yaoi, if you knew ....(⌒▽⌒) But I have the right to point out the things that disturb me, no ? (Sorry for the bad english)

    Ihloni May 4, 2017 10:28 pm
    ...yeah but seriously... I'm just fed up with the usual topic RAPE IS BAD in yaoi....( ̄∇ ̄")It's annoying and pissing me off ... ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ kokoro316

    I wasn't giving a moral lesson, It's just that the uke's behaviour and reactions leave me perplexed....

    Anonymous May 4, 2017 10:41 pm
    I wasn't giving a moral lesson, It's just that the uke's behaviour and reactions leave me perplexed.... Ihloni

    Here's a cup of suspension of disbelief, you want some? Oops, never mind, I forgot I drank it all up in order to keep enjoying the story... ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    mermaidlily May 5, 2017 4:09 am

    Although it is very sad, frustrating and irritating just reading about rape in manga, actual reality is worse.
    If anyone is interested, here are actual stats showing how rape and sexual violence is very common among the LGBT community
    http://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-assault-and-the-lgbt-community

    kyouran May 5, 2017 4:54 am
    LOL, that sounds like two kindergarteners getting scolded by the teacher... Well, Hyeongjo really should start everything over from kindergarten. @Anonymous

    I would argue the ones acting like kindergarteners are the readers that fail to separate reality from fiction and insist in equating what's happening in these mangas with rape; because that is unequivocally uneducated of them.

    kokoro316 May 5, 2017 7:03 am
    I wasn't giving a moral lesson, It's just that the uke's behaviour and reactions leave me perplexed.... Ihloni

    Désolée, je ne voulais pas être agressive, c'est juste que j'en ai marre de ce topic systèmatique autour du viol dans le yaoi, bien sure que je ne cautionne pas, je suis assez mature pour faire la différence entre "yaoi et réalité".
    Je comprends ta question sur la réaction du uke , mais comme je le dis souvent "It's yaoi logic" ...tomber amoureux de son violeur c'est "presque normale" bem sinon ça perd tout son interêt tout comme le syndrôme de Stockholm....

    Ihloni May 5, 2017 7:28 am
    Désolée, je ne voulais pas être agressive, c'est juste que j'en ai marre de ce topic systèmatique autour du viol dans le yaoi, bien sure que je ne cautionne pas, je suis assez mature pour faire la différen... kokoro316

    Je comprends que c'est assez agacant de voir sur chaque yaoi que tu lis des commentaires comme ça, surtout que ce n'est pas parler de viol ou autre qui rend une oeuvre inacceptable, mais en aucun cas je n'étais en train de condamner les lecteurs qui pouvaient apprecier ce manga ou le manga en lui-même. Par contre, je considère que le traitement psychologique du viol dans ce yaoi particulièrement est incohérent et peu crédible. On voit que l'auteur a tenté d'introduire la notion de viol et de traumatisme mais en restant dans un entre-deux étrange qui crée, selon moi, des paradoxes dans la réaction des personnages (du manga ressort ces deux messages "le viol c'est très grave"/ "le viol ça n est pas si grave") enfin bref, désolé pour le pavé et bonnes lectures de yaois (๑•ㅂ•)و✧