they just don't understand each other

kickassfu February 19, 2025 9:54 pm

i saw someone call him stupid or wtv the fuck. but bro literally told him "if you love me let me go."
don't get me wrong. obviously he should've apologized I'm not defending him on that. but he's pissed off at him staying away and asking for clarification about their relationship after 2 weeks when he wasn't clear if they were completely done or not...how is dohu stupid? like he took him at face value. and i don't think he'd go talk to him at all if the friend didn't push him for it, because he DOES love him and wants to do what he asked of him

and yeah being neurodivergent isn't an excuse for people's behaviors, but if you understand someone and know they have dificulties picking up on social clues....come on. i feel like he didn't even give him the chance to apologize, 'cause he wanted him to stay away.

i just feel like it's bad timing on their part, they both have a lot of growing up to do, so if the spoilers are right I think it makes perfect sense that they'll meet up after a few years apart. idk. i'm sad. and some of y'all are too harsh. they're literally just college students in their early twenties. dumb kids. give them some slack askdjsjdf

Responses
    Kyaaaaaaaaa February 19, 2025 10:23 pm

    I preach this so hard, it’s hard to see at first (we feel like our MC is in the wrong obviously, but it’s also far more complicated than that) but they’re young and dumb and letting their feelings rule and taking everything at face value. I think a time skip is needed for them mature and grow. This relationship was unfortunately built on a impure premise (The MC using the ML as inspiration but eventually falling in love and scratching the idea, but in this way it still proved ML’s worst fear even though the MC’s love is so pure and just differently formatted) and I think it’s necessary for them to start from scratch.

    Aster February 19, 2025 10:43 pm

    I'm with you on that, that's why I'm so looking forward to how Juheon will react upon meeting Dohu again in season 3

    kickassfu February 19, 2025 11:06 pm
    I preach this so hard, it’s hard to see at first (we feel like our MC is in the wrong obviously, but it’s also far more complicated than that) but they’re young and dumb and letting their feelings rule an... Kyaaaaaaaaa

    yeah exactly! neither of them is perfect and they've both made mistakes and assumptions. so i'm very curious to see them a bit more grown up, and hopefully more settled in their own skin. and also a bit more open to understanding and communicating!

    kickassfu February 19, 2025 11:07 pm
    I'm with you on that, that's why I'm so looking forward to how Juheon will react upon meeting Dohu again in season 3 Aster

    yessssssssssss I'm so curious to see how they've both grown!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! and their reactions to each other!