I get them both. JH of course would want to hear an apology, "I'm sorry" literally. But to be surprised that DH did not get that they were over...you cannot tell me that JH does not know DH is different.
DH, well, I get whats going on in his brain. There would be no point in apologizing, he's not going to forgive him anyway, nor will try to understand him. It's pointless. The only thing he understood was anger usually needs time, unless JH specifically says they are over.
I get them both. JH of course would want to hear an apology, "I'm sorry" literally. But to be surprised that DH did not get that they were over...you cannot tell me that JH does not know DH is different.
DH, well, I get whats going on in his brain. There would be no point in apologizing, he's not going to forgive him anyway, nor will try to understand him. It's pointless. The only thing he understood was anger usually needs time, unless JH specifically says they are over.