If wookyung has ten fans, then I am one of them. If wookyung has only one fan, then that i...

Why are you a fan of a dumbass lmao I love him too be he's dumb I'm with u tho he's indecisive af too lol

I feel like he's starting to be brainwashed now, but I liked that he was standing up for himself and not taking ml's bullshit

Ml wasn't even bullshitting the danger was very real the mc is just too hard headed and insists on proving a point. He knew that taesoo was dangerous tbh he didn't need even be told. Taesoo drugged him before him and ml even got involved and he was saved by ml miltiple times but he thought going with danger would satisfy and get him what ml couldn't give him. He's destructive indecisive and hard headed but I love flawed characters. They're both flawed.

I was referring to the double standards in their relationship. but everything you've wrote is part of the reason why the ml gets so much on my nerves when he insists that being honest wouldn't have changed anything, he didn't provide mc with any new informations and he was such a lunatic that's hard to be trusted.
and as for the savings, he also victim blamed him many times and all of these interrogation chapters have been ominous.

I know they are both flawed and I love that, but I'm taking sides. aggressively.

The ml doesn't need to warn him tho or tell him anything bc the MC was assaulted and drugged multiple times by the same guy and he kept going back. He just doesn't gaf he wanted to go the basement because he literally wanted to be beaten to death. He wanted danger and he knew the only way he will get extreme beating will be with taesoo. The ml warned him multiple times yeah but he really didnt need a warning. He was the one who was hurt multiple times by the same guy who ended up hurting him. Ml ended up leaving him because hes literally self destructive.

Like it went like this. Mc goes to club, mc meets taesoo FIRST, Taesoo drugs him, mc meets ml, he nearly gets assaulted in club bathroom while he was drugged,ml saves him. Ml tells him his dink was laced and makes him vomit it out. MC knows taesoo drugged him. Ml tells mc not to go to taesoo again he's dangerous (HE LITERALLY JUST DRUGGED YOU) taesoo sends mc pics of ml at club. MC gets jealous and goes to taesoo to "get back at ml". MC gets drugged AGAIN assaulted AGAIN. Ml warns him AGAIN that the guy that JUST Assaulted HIM is dangerous. He ignores him. Ml and MC break up and Mc goes back to who??? Taesoo like why???

tbh I don't know for mc what changed from the basement to the warehouse. that aside the more consequential issue is the investigation to which ml could've hinted at since he wasn't concerned to jeopardize it for his own interests; otherwise we can drop the pretense that he ever cared for mc.

they weren't compatible, but I don't feel like simply beating mc and never using the safe word was a way to deal with his sel-destructiveness.
again, he was the one that dictated the boundaries and was following them even less than mc but was being nothing but patronizing. that's not ground for trust or communication, least of all healing

cos he is seeking to feel pain, but that's a separate issue that can be either be address by therapy if it's a coping mechanism or a dom that know what he's doing if it's need for adrenaline.

all I'm saying is that the ml tried nothing so obviously nothing worked. I can't call what he did "helping"

He didn't "simply" beat the mc. Please go reread the chapter. The ml isn't a full on sadist he's clearly a dom with sadist tendencies but he has limits. The MC on the other hand is a masochist. He's not a sub. They don't match because of that. The MC kept pushing his limits again and again trying to make the ml be more extreme which is what causes the ml to lose control,regret it and break up. The MC gets pissed and goes back to the club he was assaulted in multiple times, to piss the ml off. The he tried to get someone else to do what the ml coildnt do which is literally beat him without stopping. The mc needs help. I think the ml has some fault but most of the fault is the mc and I say this although I prefer the mc.

Except he doesn't need a dom,hes not a sub at all. He's a masochist. Ml is clearly a dom but not a full sadist. Mc doesn't like rules and control and being bossed around he thinks those things are annoying and nagging. He's a just a masochist. Ml is a dom. MC needs therapy. If he wants to do bdsm he need to understand that u need to do it safely. He's been in hospital already and he literally didn't even care. The ml had to walk away. He asked him point blank "do you know the difference between play and a assault/beating" and the mc says there's none. He needs help

I've never said that mc isn't self-destructive, but
I'm not blaming him for having this inherent tendency. and as for not knowing how to manage it, maybe I'm misremembering but before the ml he had only "done it" with the stalker, he's inexperienced so it's normal that he wouldn't know his limits and would want to experiment.
(I'm under the impression that he thinks he enjoys the acts, just not who he's doing them with).

anyway we established they are not compatible, mc wasn't satisfied by their relationship either and that's no ones fault.
and if it is, I'm pinning it to the ml for preventing communication, not even telling his name but wanting mc to somehow know he was a dom
( °ヮ° )
the safeword is there for both of them, the ml as just as much pride as the mc and the outcome is that he simply beat him up because reasons aren't a justification.


I take issue with pretending that he tried to help him, that alone

I meant a sadist, with someone that knows how to satisfy him without sending him to the hospital it would have been a more controlled environment from which mc could have grown to know himself more.

I have no clue why he likes the ml, we'll probably find out he isn't even a masochist and that's why he doesn't differentiate between assault and sm.
I'm not faulting him for not yet knowing that he needs therapy