now they are just pissing me off

butchez <3 March 3, 2025 11:15 pm

I think this shit will be resolved if jinjoo found a job and gained independence. She can't depend on either of them anymore (her husband and Doyeon)

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    TENYN March 5, 2025 1:10 am

    Exactly

    cat March 12, 2025 9:31 pm

    That's part of the problem, how can she get a job in this economy as a 40+ year old woman with no job experience who lived a housewife her entire life. It's the trap many abused women go through

    butchez <3 March 12, 2025 11:20 pm
    That's part of the problem, how can she get a job in this economy as a 40+ year old woman with no job experience who lived a housewife her entire life. It's the trap many abused women go through cat

    yeah thats so sad. Thats why irl I don't think women should ever be housewives, atleast they have to work a little before getting married and stop working. So many women get trapped in abusive marriages because they don't have the financial support to leave.

    Back to Jinjoo, I feel like she could work at a cafe or any job thats doesn't require a degree but honestly I don't think she even has the communication skills for it She was groomed and trapped in that marriage with no job, friends or family to back her up or offer support (mentally, too).

    Isolating the victim is one of the many tactics that abusive men use.

    cat March 12, 2025 11:23 pm
    yeah thats so sad. Thats why irl I don't think women should ever be housewives, atleast they have to work a little before getting married and stop working. So many women get trapped in abusive marriages because... butchez <3

    Yeah I don't think she can do any service job either plus it's much more difficult to get hired at service jobs when ur really old

    butchez <3 March 12, 2025 11:29 pm
    Yeah I don't think she can do any service job either plus it's much more difficult to get hired at service jobs when ur really old cat

    I can't see any way of her to get out of this other than to reconcile with her family, although we don't really know her situation with them in depth other than they cut ties off with her because she married that dude. They could be bad too.

    toastyBooksAndTea March 13, 2025 11:58 pm
    yeah thats so sad. Thats why irl I don't think women should ever be housewives, atleast they have to work a little before getting married and stop working. So many women get trapped in abusive marriages because... butchez <3

    She has had jobs before because her pos husband couldn’t get income enough

    butchez <3 March 14, 2025 12:31 am
    She has had jobs before because her pos husband couldn’t get income enough toastyBooksAndTea

    oh really I dont remember that. do u know the chapters ? I would like to analyze them more.

    toastyBooksAndTea March 14, 2025 8:50 am
    oh really I dont remember that. do u know the chapters ? I would like to analyze them more. butchez <3

    I don’t remember which ones, I think it was the earlier chapters? But the vibe was weird, she looked really tired and he was like pls, you don’t have to work, I’m sorry I didn’t do enough so you could stay home and not work or some shit like that, he seemed like he wanted to isolate her more but she was working out of necessity, of course she didn’t seem to make any connections or friends or anything