Hi there, thank you for sharing with us this part of your life, I can see that you needed this, it’s good to express yourself. Your feelings are legitimate, please don’t punish yourself for your feelings, negative thoughts happen it doesn’t mean that you’re a bad person.
Have you tried sharing your concern with your parter ? Maybe planning a date/activity together might give you the strength to talk about your fear.
Good luck (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
When you guys first met you guys felt infactuated but the real test for love is staying together even when the spark has died down. The spark has just turned into love rather than the instant tingles of infactuation when you and your partner first dated.
I usually dont wanna tell a personal story of mine, but this just hits too close to me. Im currently thinking if Im falling out of love with my long-time partner since we cant really have time for each other coz we're busy and we talk less than we did before. Its like the spark is not there yknow, and I overthink that maybe he doesnt really like me that much. Why is this the first thing that I read when I opened this site? Wtf man im bawling my eyes out bcoz I know in my heart that I still love them and I know they love me and I feel so guilty now that I even thought of it