But the mom is literally being supportive.. that's why they invited Chaheon over.
Also, them moving in together is basically like them marrying.. they could never do it legally, so the family knows how big of a step moving in together is, so why wouldn't they want to know more about their son's partner.
Also, it's not required to out yourself to your family, and mc definitely doesn't want to, why should either the ml or the family force him to do so
I got the supportive bit but i think the whole thing is less supportive and more controlling if im brong honest like fair enough meeting but in the presence of the mc cause i wouldnt want my partner in secret meeting with my family. I think rivalry tackled thos topic so much better like the dad of mc said to the partner that he knows mc is gay but want him to come out to him on his own. It just feels really weird tbh cause mc is getting worried about why his partners keeps coming over with gifts and only stays for a short amount of time which is objectively weird also for like 3 months and mc had to basically put his life on hold for 3 months for his mums approval like what. Also to get to know your kids partner usually your kid is present like this is not normal in anyway and i personally would feel a bit betrayed if my partner and family did this but at the end of the day its just a story lol.
If the mom was being really supportive, then she should have sat him down and had a one on one conversation with him. Looked him in the eye and told him that she would love and support him no matter who he loves. She is thinking about herself and how scared SHE is. I have a 15 year old son. I would not go behind his back this way, it is disrespectful and could be interpreted as me not trusting him to take care of himself and make his own choices.
Agreed! And I get that other countries are less tolerant of homosexuality, but trust and respect are universal. You made a really good point. The uke has the right to "come out" whenever HE feels ready. And going behind his back like that? That is just going to make him believe that his mom is not ok with him being gay. If I was gay and my mom had cried and being upset when she found out I was gay, I would think that too. And the secret meetings and agreements makes everything worse.
Omg this like cause like mc already doesnt trust them enough to come out and theyre like not trying to help him trust them more or anything just doing more untrustworthy things. Theres like so many better ways to even like just hint that youd be accepting and that they can tell you anything but instead theyre having their own secret club like thats just invasion of privacy but theyre treating it like its for the best what. Also the mum still has this look on her face like she doesnt like whats going on and its pmo so much cause your kid is really happy they have friends, a bf and a job.
Thank you!! I thought i was going crazy for a sec lmaoo
So i think outing someone is totally wrong and they shiuld not do that but the family are being so weird like having secret meetings etc is not cool and not a very good way to get people to trust you lol. Also the bf saying never tell him is so weird too like this is such an overstepping of boundaries. And dont get me started on the mum omg shes so annoying i get worrying for your child in a society that wont accept them but at the end of the day its their life and your job is to support them and not dictate what they can and cant do like moving in with someone. In my opinion the better way to go about this would be to tell mc to bring the friend to dinner to get to know him and make sure hes not a bad guy and let mc get on with his life. Anyway long story short this chapter just pmo so bad i had to rant:(