Totally agree. Don't think rape is a wet dream of anyone other than the rapist.
I works after except people who are receptive is willing and able to eventually open up. This guy is actively resisting while insisting he can do it. So his reaction is obv of someone not willing. I'm not saying willing means it will go in easily but someone who tightens up and fighting like crazy is being counterproductive. So yes, it would hurt more. And take longer etc. and would just be tight the whole time ... So I would agree regarding the first time but not from someone unwilling.
*It would be the case
That is the realest reaction (from a man bottoming for the first time) I’ve ever seen. Because most of the time they suddenly enjoy it when they get rammed???