finally someone who gets it !!
YESSS OMG exactly this
Tbh I don’t even think he’s toxic I think both of them find it very hard to communicate Brenda’s they are outside of each others comfort zone
I get it but honestly I'm just fucking done with the mc needing to endure everything because of some bullshit the ml went through.
Since the readers get to know the mc's inner thoughts etc we will automatically emphasize with him and insert ourselves a little. And honestly, there will be better men out there. I know this story is about this explicit couple, so they will get back together but I still think it would be better for the mc to find a man who's done with his own character development and ready to love instead of a spoiled overgrown child who needs to learn how to love from the goddamn beginning.
At this point it's nothing new but I'm still annoyed and disappointed every time there's a fully functional mc and a manchild/jerk who has to learn how to love. And we readers have to suffer through 80 chapters of mistreatment just to get like 2 chapters of a healthy relationship.
(And the worst thing is that I see this shit happening irl on social media every day and then I come here to take a break from the toxic shit just to be served the same again rahhhhh)
(Sorry for the rant, got a little off-topic there)
Factsss
take a load of this guy ╮(￣▽￣)╭
You explained it so well !!!!
They both have to learn tho, MC not perfect either imo. Too scary. I’d grab that dick and put a lock on it, end of story. Get locked in or be locked out TF.
You want the ml to have the maturity that not even the mc has if he has any now it’s because he gained it during the relationship but let’s not forget him breaking up with men because of the size of their penis then he only slept with the ml because he said he had a big penis or sum they both started the relationship shallow and now that feelings are involved they’re trying to break their bad habits but it’s hard and they lack communication and are full of insecurity the ml feels he can’t show exactly how he feels bc he had to play the perfect bf role his whole life the mc is a hopeless romantic yet he’s insecure because he wants his relationship to be perfect the fact he had a plan to day a guy 100 days sleep with them then dump them if they weren’t big enough shows he likes to be in control of his relationships which is not wrong but it leaves room for lots of insecurity ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
THANK YOU!! That’s my point! They both are naive in these aspects especially the ML
Yeah what mistreatment…… the mcs insecurities? He’s being influenced by gossip of the mls past instead of him having a mature sit down he’s yelling his piece and the breaking up and walking off…. Go touch the grass ……NOW because the MCs biggest enemy is himself! I would’ve locked ourselves in my room and we would’ve talked it out. The mc is running away. The ML isn’t helping by being all mysterious and shit but he doesn’t seem to be keeping any secrets.
I'm not rereading the last chapters for this soy answer is solely based on what I remember but didn't the mc try to talk about it? And whenever he asked, the ml just avoided the topic?
The mc panicked about the whole exes situation ...but only inside his own head. And he did not yell at anyone? He just said that this isn't working for him, which is the grown-up thing everyone should do when a relationship does not really work out and only leaves them feeling anxious.
And I'm not saying that the mc is a perfect angel but I do think he's handling the relationship better than the ml.
Yeah the mc is shallow as hell with the penis size but he was looking for a relationship from the start. He was just hoping to get a good relationship with a dude who's big. I personally don't relate but I don't really see anything wrong with it either. He could definitely have been more honest when breaking up with them (I don't think he mentioned the dick part) but during the relationship he didn't seem to do anything bad. I agree on the hopeless romantic part but some people just are like that and some aren't. Anyways, I completely support his decision of breaking up when it isn't working. And this will most likely wake up the ml now to stop acting (cause the perfect bf thing is something he's imposing on himself, while completely failing bc he doesn't even notice that he's missing the most important part of a relationship: love) and become genuine for once.
I mean that’s definitely your opinion but breaking up with guys because of their penis isn’t looking for a relationship he was more in love with the idea of being in a relationship which was ok but to waste someone’s time like that …yeah I’ll leave that to your interpretation. But the ml literally hasn’t done anything to him besides not opening up to him like he wants him to which created insecurity but the ml can’t do that easily because he’s never done it before if the MC was looking for a genuine relationship why is he breaking up with him instead of finally getting how he feels off his chest ? Because he’s childish… even if it’s because he’s now tired he waited until his breathing point before even trying for the relationship the MC isn’t a saint like ppl make him out to be not is the ML they’re childish asf they make mistakes which is natural they’re college students
Omg thank you….
It’s a jinx guys. He believes once he mentions he likes it. He’ll lose interest or he’ll outgrow it. It’s a very irrational psychological issue that develops from superstition. Honestly I like the ml character because his beliefs are finally starting to be challenged. How could yall be mad at him for being shallow and dismissive when people approach him in a shallow way and when he doesn’t perform how they imagined him to be they dismiss him. Even in the flashback those girls approach him with the “you don’t have to change” and then broke up with him when he didn’t change. Like how he acts now is very understandable and isn’t as far fetched as yall making it seem. Also I would like to add it’s hard to just discard of habits that he’s probably been doing for decades. Even if they’re toxic! The hate for the ml seems a bit forced. Especially since I read more toxic bls. He obviously never loved someone like he does our mc so he’s going to be naive. I was happy he said the little he did and chased after him because he still expressed interest. He could’ve just let the mc walk off and this could be resolved 80 million chapters later